Is being thought of as a "fuckboy" detrimental to my chances?

itsfun2Bdumb · 2018-11-18T06:32:56+00:00

It is very non PC to call someone a fuckboy. Tell her that she’s being very offensive and that the correct terms are “slut” or “man whore”

lobomos · 2018-11-18T03:22:16+00:00

Maybe just talk to her and try to have fun? There isn’t really a magic bullet for this. You may not be able to do much of anything since she seems to have made a decision.

2018-11-18T05:24:54+00:00

Being known as a guy who has sex with girls? Yeah I'd say that's a good thing..

Girls 'hate' them because they're attracted to them despite not being the prince charming image that they've decided in their mind actually exists.

noprideinsomniac95 · 2018-11-18T14:38:45+00:00

I feel like the term "fuckboy" is reserved for when the guy just wants to have sex and the girl doesn't. If she just wanted to bone as well, she wouldn't be calling you that.

ermahgerdafancyword · 2018-11-18T17:38:58+00:00

Are you just there for the sex?

dailymanup · 2018-11-21T02:04:20+00:00

If you want to avoid fuckboy status, up your Sexual Frame.

kleptune · 2018-11-21T15:33:08+00:00

Yikes @ all these guys who are in denial about the label of 'fuckboy' being a bad thing. It is, unless it's specifically said in a teasing context.

Woman here--and yes, when a girl calls you a fuckboy, it means she doesn't see you as long term relationship material. She sees you as someone whose main prerogative is getting laid by any means possible. Just like how many guys are uninterested in girls who seem "slutty/easy," many girls are uninterested in guys who appear the same way. There's no way for her to tell if you're just looking for a warm body for a night or actually interested in her as a person, because she doesn't know you well enough to gauge how manipulative you may or may not be.

Other guys will congratulate you on being labeled a fuckboy because, in male culture, being perceived as having many sexual partners is a really good thing and makes you "high status" or "socially successful" or some bullshit. In reality, it just means you behave as if you want many sexual partners or have already had many... but whether that's a good or bad trait is completely different for each individual you meet. Some people are cool with it, some are not. "Fuckboy" is the term used by girls who aren't cool with it.

smartypants183 · 2018-11-18T11:14:34+00:00

This is the urban dictionary definition, lol Wouldn't wanna meet cha. 👎 This is the guy that turns a woman into hating and being suspicious of men. Making everyone's job/goals harder. BTW, fuckboy = looser, there is no upside here, it wasn't a complement.

fuckboy

Asshole boy who is into strictly sexual relationships; he will lead a girl on and let her down, then apologize only to ask for "pics" once the girl has welcomed him back into her trust. Boys like this will pretend to genuinely care about the girl but always fail to prove the supposed affection. He almost never makes plans because he has to hangout on his terms which could be the most whimsical of times, and if the girl rejects those plans because she has a legitimate reason for not being able to hang out, he will get pissed. However, if plans are made he will bail on them without a second thought. If a girl tries to stand up to this asshole he will most likely deny everything and turn it all around on the girl making it seem as though the conflict at stake is her fault and he has done nothing wrong and hates when girls bitch at him for "no reason." He will always come crawling back because he is a horny prick and can not withstand the dispossession of one of his baes, because he has more than one that's for sure. Texting such a boy will consist of the girl carrying the conversation and the guy responding with short answers 10 or more minutes after the girl's response, but when she asks why he takes so long to answer it will be because he is "busy" but he promises he likes her. Boys like this are egotistical assholes who can not be trusted and are hard to get rid of because they say all the right things to get the girl back.

marrymeodell · 2018-11-18T11:56:44+00:00

Yes this is detrimental. No girl wants to sleep with a fuckboy.

diwolute · 2018-11-18T18:54:51+00:00

She used "her friend" to say it about you. It means that she doesn't want to risk his prospects with you, so she respects you as a fuckboy. She doesn't wants to show herself as approving or rejecting fuckboys.

Women don't have their own opinions. They scan your mind, to find what you GENUINELY believe, and then accept whatever you believe.

By telling that, she only wanted to know if you are comfortable in your skin about being a fuckboy, so : don't apologize for yourself. Don't give explanations. It is a good thing. Be honest. Be natural with it.

She only wants you to feel comfortable with your sexuality, so she can also feel comfortable around you.

She calling you a fuckboy is like you calling her a 10. The only problem is that she doesn't want to be judged for enjoying a fuckboy. If you have a problem with it, then you are the problem to her, because a lot of hypocrites want sex with a girl, meanwhile calling whores to all girls having sex. That's nonsensical and psychopathic, but most men are brainwashed into that psychopathy, (mostly by religion), and women are scared of being hurt by those prejudices.

jacksonbarrett · 2018-11-18T23:00:24+00:00

Being called a fuckboy is probably the best thing you can be called. Can’t tell you how many girls tell me they hate so and so guy because he’s a fuckboy but given the chance they’ll sleep with him on the spot.

Title	Is being thought of as a "fuckboy" detrimental to my chances?
Author	toomanymints
Upvotes	9
Comments	20
Date	November 18, 2018 3:06 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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