Hello Seddit,

posting for the first time here, lurking for over 2 years now. I have 2 questions concerning seduction/ltr I can't find a solution for.

Short resume of me: I'm a 6'0, 25 years old student. I go to the gym 3 times a week, know how to dress and am fairly good looking. I have read models, how to win friends and several other books on body language. Confidence is no problem for me.

Problem 1: In the last year I dated a girl for a period of 3-4 months had sex and spend some really fun time with her. At some point though, I wanted the girl to be my girlfriend. As you can imagine, the girl was just not sure if she wants a relationship aswell. So I was emotionally more invested than she was. At this point the "relationship" was over. I am now in the same situation with another girl. I am fairly sure that if I talk with her about having a relationship, she would be unsure aswell. So what can I do? I know I can not force her to be my girlfriend.

Problem 2: I know sex is a game of give and take. I know, I give more than i receive, so how can I adapt my behaviour in bed that she wants to make me more happy? Just give less?

Thanks in advance and have a good day!