Some questions from a married loser beta?

SkorchZang · 2015-02-15T09:59:51+00:00

Could I even re-spark this marriage, or am I just wasting my time?

Absolutely. You can escape the tailspin, seen a lot harder cases where it's worked.

I start soft kissing and making love

There's a funny formula, if you love a woman, you need to fuck her like you hate the bitch.

That doesn't mean you're always extreme hard, you should do whatever you want with her. The point of the formula is that you're always Genghis Khan, and she is your sex slave. That is the unspoken fantasy that turns her on.

Don't gush your love at her, does nothing for them, instead - seethe with your lust. Don't enact a lovey puppy good guy, put on the seductive mask of Satan. She wants to feel a powerful beastman who'll do whatever he wants with her. Put yourself and your pleasure first and her, sixth...

If you're into being soft and kissy, you can do it with the attitude that it's delicious torment. Couple it to forced submission postures, like putting her arms behind her back, wrestle holds, etc. Torture her with forbidden pleasures. Withhold release from her on your whim in the middle of that, demand she beg you to make her cum.

Seeing as how she has you on the "sex rationing plan", I'd pretend to play along as you head off to the bedroom for duty sex. But midway, pull her suddenly (shrieks and all!) into the laundry room or somewhere, bend her over and ffffuck her there. She'll protest, you look at her with a smirk on your face and tell her that's what you always wanted do with your splendid little slut. Watch her face change completely.... Hello, Genghis Khan!

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cdogg75 · 2015-02-15T09:38:36+00:00

Turn down her sex tomorrow saying you aren't interested. Taking that last piece of power away will get her hamstering ( because of your now better looking image, and all the other things everyone else sees)...she will start to think that you don't need her anymore, and should turn around a bit...before she shit tests you again to get her advantage back

KyfhoMyoba · 2015-02-15T23:20:50+00:00

I see that you have read MMSLP, been counseled to read Sex God Method as well as join /r/MarriedRedPill. If you have been following the aforementioned advice, the only thing left is Dread. Game. Whatever level of Dread that you're at (and you haven't said), you need to escalate. Search the posts of /u/BluePillProfessor for his primer on Dread. Game. Read therationalmale.com for his take on the theory behind it. Check out Heartiste for his take, and then implement. Flirt with waitresses (incl kino) in front of your wife, ignore her when she's not giving it up. Don't show ANY physical affection if it won't lead to sex. And always, ALWAYS be improving yourself.

I disagree with turning down the sex, but if you do, go out/stay out late tomorrow, come home, go straight to take a shower and THEN turn her down, saying you're really tired. I mean, if you're going to do Dread, then do Dread - don't be all butthurt, which is what you are liable to come off as if you try this.

Like I said, I disagree about turning down the sex. I think that you should go caveman on her and just use her like a whore. Manhandle her, tell (don't ask!) her to do stuff, MAKE her do stuff, come all over her face or make her eat it, etc. Then roll over and go to sleep, no cuddling. Next day, more Dread. Game.

favours_of_the_moon · 2015-02-15T11:09:38+00:00

I now get approached a lot and all her friends are drenching their panties to fuck me.

Hahaha, dread game.

Sounds like you're turning things around dude. Accepting responsibility, etc. You know what to do.

abcd_z · 2015-02-16T03:41:18+00:00

Of course, there's always the nuclear option.

The-Pussy-Whisperer · 2015-02-16T00:54:21+00:00

"I am not interested in sex with a starfish. Learn to please me and you may have my cock."

/serious

GRRMkills · 2015-02-16T00:29:44+00:00

Since you already got RP advice, I'll give you some sexual advice. If your girl wants BDSM or any type of dominance and submission in the bedroom, she won't "let" you have control, you have to take it. Because you both may be new to it, give her a safe word to use so that she can stop you if she needs to. Until she says that, take control and push boundaries. Rip her underwear off (twist and pull hard sideways). Spank her (not like a sissy, either), tie her up or use some handcuffs on her, pull her hair (close to the roots).

Take charge in the bedroom, be a man, TAKE control, it's what she wants

exbp · 2015-02-15T15:52:26+00:00

Repost this to r/marriedredpill

redpilldude · 2015-02-15T17:57:02+00:00

she is absolutely wonderful in every other category.

If she doesn't want to have passionate sex with you multiple times per week, then she doesn't give a shit about you. She might treat you decently outside the bedrooms because she sees you as her Beta Bucks, but you guys are more like roommates at this point than husband and wife.

You might be able to re-spark this, but it won't be easy.

R4F1 · 2015-02-15T18:41:35+00:00

If she tries to initiate sex in the near future, including today, then don't pay heed to it. Try to get busy with something else and give her an excuse. This will make her feel less "special" on this occasion, and make for some much needed Dread game.

dstylish · 2015-02-15T16:55:27+00:00

Life's too short to waste time on dread gaming your wife and trying to "win her back". If your SMV is as good as you say it is, then go ahead and capitalize on that. I think you know what I mean :)

Kawaiidickbutt · 2015-02-15T23:08:24+00:00

in addition to all the great tips on here you should definitely check out /r/DeadBedrooms/ for your second question

Title	Some questions from a married loser beta?
Author	ThatBetaGuy
Upvotes	13
Comments	35
Date	February 15, 2015 9:18 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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