Chicks with dudes

1NV0K3R · 2015-02-19T15:21:53+00:00

Boyfriends don't matter.

tombreck2 · 2015-02-19T14:41:59+00:00

Instead of coffee just invite her over to your place to 'watch a movie' another time.

It's a tinder girl; there will always be a new one

kingofpoplives · 2015-02-19T15:22:08+00:00

So we have a one hour coffee date set up for today but I'm kind of thinking I'm going to cancel. She wants to have the date and then go eat dinner with her BF.

Your gut is telling you to avoid this one. Trust your gut.

A woman with that little personal integrity is not worth associating with. She's just gonna drag you down to her level. There are plenty of plate worthy women out there so avoid this baggage. She views men as losers to be used an abused. She can fuck off.

FrameWalker · 2015-02-19T14:41:58+00:00

Ignore and carry on as usual. She's already playing the field, she just hasn't told her boyfriend he's single.

Read up on boyfriend destroyers. Chateau Heartiste has some good ones. Basically you say something like "so when's the wedding" when she brings him up, and you follow with "he must be a really great guy" that sort of thing. If they've decided to sleep with you they'll hamster and say things like "yeah i guess but i dont think hes the one/ he doesnt have feelings for me/etc."

I have very limited experience in this arena. I've made out with girls at night after they say "I have a boyfriend" by dancing with them getting really close to their face and saying this is so bad I shouldn't be doing this.

A prospect that was "taken" ignored my texts until she saw me out on another date. Haven't closed or plated her yet so I can't teach you much but I'll share. We had one coffee date and one night out drinking and dancing where things got more physical. A few weeks later she's now single and I had her come over for some making out. I hit some LMR so I haven't closed yet. Overall she was very blatant about wanting to swing branches.

Rooi_Aap · 2015-02-19T16:14:54+00:00

Nobody who is serious about their relationship accepts dates on Tinder, or use it actively for that matter. Girl is looking to cheat, or the next branch. Plate material. NEVER even think about LTR with her. Also, bring a raincoat for your buddy.

yoyoz69 · 2015-02-19T19:17:04+00:00

Have you seen a picture of her BF? How do you know he even exists?

I wouldn't cancel, unless you're not attracted.

sheridork · 2015-02-20T00:06:56+00:00

She has a boyfriend but is using tinder... Do you really want to associate with a girl who uses some dude for commitment and stability while she's simultaneously out fucking randos? Find a higher quality woman.

oldredder · 2015-02-20T04:44:22+00:00

Never chase. Let the girls with boyfriends chase you.

Title	Chicks with dudes
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Comments	17
Date	February 19, 2015 1:46 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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