My old oneitis just went to a concert, and got to "meet the band"

megatron37 · 2014-04-26T10:02:54+00:00

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Schrodingersdawg · 2014-04-26T11:27:27+00:00

Dude, she's just proved how easily she'll spread her legs for a bit of fame. You have clear evidence she's a run-of-the-mill whore drawn to fantasy instead of reality. No point being bitter or jealous: you've dodged a bullet. She was never capable of being 'The One'.

Women constantly make this fucktarded mistake of assuming a sex act with a high value man is a measure of her value, attractiveness and importance to him, when, as in this case, she's just something available to be pumped. Your girl thinks she's the shit, but the next night some other dumb girl is posting the exact same photos with the exact same poses on her facebook feed with the same band members, thinking it proves she's high value. The band members will never remember her: she was just another easy slut in an ocean of them.

She's an idiot. If you want to shit stir her, post on her wall that some girls on twitter heard he had herpes. Otherwise just forget her and move on, other fish in the sea.

SkorchZang · 2014-04-26T11:47:26+00:00

Have some discipline, dude. Make arrangements so going forward you never get updates of any kind as to where she's spreading her legs this week. Erase her from your life utterly and shut down any attempts of hers to sneak back into it.

And get busy. You just don't need that shit.

semigod__ · 2014-04-26T10:27:28+00:00

But does anyone know how to cope with the fact that a woman's appearance can get her sex with famous men but we need to put so much more work in than just be born the right gender and decent looking to have sex with famous women?

Your worth is tied to what you achieve in life, not by you being young and fertile.

Nothing a woman achieves in life makes her objectively more valuable. She only has her youth.

2014-04-26T13:32:00+00:00

...but we need to put so much more work in than just be born the right gender and decent looking to have sex with famous women?

Men have much more SMV mobility - much more upside - than women. An average looking man can improve his SMV much more than an average looking woman. For a given amount of effort put towards self improvement, a man can improve his SMV much more than a woman who puts in the same effort (simply because we are less dependent on physical features for our SMV than women are).

To give an analogy, men get paid a smaller salary with more equity, whereas women get paid a larger salary with less equity. Guess who's value has the potential to appreciate more with investment and effort?

Someone here mentioned on one of the posts that the hierarchy of SMV goes something like this:

High SMV male > High SMV female > Low SMV female > Low SMV male

So one could easily argue that we are the lucky ones because we have an opportunity to improve our SMV much more than any woman ever could. I think it helps to look at it in this way, as it will help you capitalize on the opportunity in front of you.

2014-04-26T19:09:26+00:00

Whenever I find my resolve destabilized, I look the situation in the third person. Picture this had happened to a friend of yours.

She did you a favor. She just proved to you that she is not worth shit and you didn't even have to lift a finger to find that out. She didn't drag you through a relationship and pull this shit on you while fucking you. You won a prize and it gave you your quarter back. On to the next one.

What are your thoughts on this jealousy?

It happens to everyone at some point and it's going to happen to you again. You will see a woman that you want to be with sitting on someone elses lap. Get use to it.

What's the best way through it?

Just carry on and accept it. It's like getting cut or stubbing your toe. It happens to everyone. It sucks and it will probably happen again. All you can do is move forward and be careful next time.

How does one reconcile this imbalance in equality?

I may be "theoretically" wrong in saying this but I personally feel there is no imbalance. Women can pull shit to get fucked and so can you. The only difference between you and her is that she has the method locked down and is applying it. Where as, you know the method for men but have yet to apply it in life fully. Women are raised to be this way therefore by the time they hit their 20s it's poetry in motion. Most men grow up with bullshit in their head so they have to become aware and swallow the pill as they mature. Which is all the better because we understand both sides of the line. If you can't beat it then use it to your advantage and their disadvantage.

It is easy to say to become that man, but the meta question for me is why are we jealous of something we know is transient?

I'm assuming it's sunk cost fallacy. We give them our time and attention (mentally or physically) and we feel like we missed the party boat when she jumps on another dick. The thing is, once you accept the reality of how some women do things (I say some because there are some that just don''t have the balls) it becomes easier to swallow and you can for the most part predict it just by learning a few traits about individual women. Like I said earlier, she showed you the kind of chick she is. Do you really give a shit about her now?

Bosch2000 made a great point in his thread.

mbillion · 2014-04-26T13:32:44+00:00

What are your thoughts on this jealousy?

I'm not jealous of women.

I have a simple question for you: would you rather be a man or a woman?

I'd rather be a man. Sure, it's much harder for us to get sex than it is for women, that's the way it is, we are the buyers, they are the suppliers. But the struggle we go through as a gender is what makes us better in the end.

Our gender built the world, everything from science, to literature, to cities, to disease control to the computer. Men did it all. Our closest relatives, chimps are biologically very similar to us; we put our species on the fucking moon, what have chimps done recently?

You should take pride in being a man, and face the challenges head-on. Because at the end of the day, what do women bring to the table? Sex. What do men bring to the table? Fucking human civilisation, that's what.

2014-04-27T07:34:02+00:00

Go lifting broski. Dont think about that shit. Aldo remove her from your life. Block/delete. You are partially to blame for that loaded gun next to you.

this is a valuable lesson. our memories can trigger emotions related to them. what you did there is allowing these memories to act up. know thyself mano.

Move forward. Push! Lift!! shit happens :)

LostProsody · 2014-04-26T20:52:47+00:00

Realize that this is probably going to be the highlight of her accomplishments in life. I've seen some comments offering up ways to get revenge. That's beneath you. The old version of you would do something like that. Use this negative energy to take another step towards your goal even if it's just adding five pounds to your workout routine.

HighAngleAlpha0331 · 2014-04-26T18:20:19+00:00

Bas Rutten has a set of DVDs and CDs containing his MMA workouts. When you're feeling frustrated, do ten 3 minute rounds with a minute of alternating pushups and situps between. The answer will become clear.

420butfukk · 2014-04-27T00:59:01+00:00

On an unrelated note, what band was it?

LowlandsMan · 2014-04-26T13:56:08+00:00

NEXT! Start thinking about the NEXT woman, not the last one!

mbillion · 2014-04-26T16:24:35+00:00

Its not as if the band member is trying to date this girl. She got used. This cycle will continue until she is no longer valued for her physical appearance.

I had the same thing. Was about to get married to this girl. We broke up. I am 28, as is she - but this was a while back. She is remarkably attractive and I convinced myself that I would never date much less bed another female who lit my fire the way she did.

Well it turns out this was patently false. Not only has her SMV declined in her old age, I have plenty of young fertile women orbitting me - many (not all) of whom are not only more physically attractive than her, but are smarter, more articulate, more sexual and sensual, and have life goals that amount to more than being a lonely spinster

GooseNewberg · 2014-04-26T18:58:34+00:00

Men need to work harder.

means

Women require more from us.

means

Men will fuck anything.

newpopehere1 · 2014-04-26T23:11:27+00:00

You are STILL orbiting her if shes on you're instagram or FB also it seems you want people here to bash her choices in some way to make you feel good.

TheSilverFin · 2014-04-27T10:22:29+00:00

How do you know she slept with the band?

FortunateBum · 2014-04-27T20:19:28+00:00

Do you want to have sex with male musicians? Do you think Lady Gaga is fucking her male groupies?

It's not the same.

Let it go.

nataliieportman · 2014-04-28T00:51:36+00:00

Delete her number, stop thinking about her. I had a thing for a girl who just wanted to keep me around to waste time. Trolling her doesn't even matter as she doesn't even care for you.

HeadingRed · 2014-04-28T16:24:03+00:00

A lot of this is a matter of your age and experience. As you get older, be with more women those "gotta have her(s)" start to fade.

I'm not saying you won't have days when you go "wish I could have had her\not broken up with her" but they come less often and need to be met with you thinking about the ones you had.

Keep in mind almost any woman you meet in her 20's who is hot has her pick and it's easy for her to move on. Wait until you're 30.

ColdEiric · 2014-04-26T13:58:06+00:00

I converted to Christianity. Sure, there's quite a lot of betaboys in the church, but I have no plan of becoming one of them. I know how to spot the betaboys, and it doesn't matter to me if they believe or not. A cross on the neck has nothing to do with alpha or beta.

All the men in the holy bible, the redpill men who respected and listened to God, they hung out with men, talked with men, bled with men, cried with men, worked with men, and died with men. They had ninety nine problems, and more. Women who respected that, they lived well enough.

Men knew that God when made the man, He made man to be a imitation of Himself. The woman, on the other hand, was made to be a help to the man.

2014-04-26T22:45:29+00:00

It kind of hits me hard when I hear something like this. Stop following this chick on IG. If you have her FB, delete her. If there's a place you know she goes to, don't be there. Eventually, you're gonna forget about her just like that musician will.

WeAreAllSheep · 2014-04-26T17:07:00+00:00

Sounds like you're still beta orbiting. Why do you care what she does? If she's willing to become some band groupie for 1 night, she's not exactly quality.

Women may be able to get laid easier (they're the supply, men are the demand since we want it more).

However, there's no denying that it's easier to be a man in this world than a woman. The glass ceiling still exists at work, no matter what people say. Look at big law and business, it is MUCH harder for women and minorities to climb that ladder. This happens in medicine as well, but to a less extent than law and business. The world is still very much ruled by men, specifically white men. Minorities have a harder time, and women. If you're a minority female, good luck. I think the gap in wage inequality isn't as big as the feminists want you to think though.

Also, I've seen plenty of ugly men (with wealth) with attractive young women. How many ugly women do you see with attractive young men?

2014-04-26T18:05:38+00:00

Look, it's much easier to get laid within your social circle. Find a way to fuck and then drop her.

NoFatChicks88 · 2014-04-26T16:01:21+00:00

We don't bleed out of our crotches every month, so I guess we got that goin' for us as an advantage. We're also stronger and usually smarter.

But I get your point. A lot of women have life on easy mode.

RPSavant · 2014-04-26T17:35:07+00:00

it's Biology. that's it.. and social conditioning. in the US we pretty much let biology take its course. In the middle East, a girl like this would be stoned. but here the women get to spread their legs with a resounding "you go girl!" while the men get called out on CNN... but it's ok because the men usually end up getting their own segment on said channel.

so don't try and HAMSTER too much... just realize that's how the world is and adapt yourself.

KandPol · 2014-04-27T01:11:44+00:00

Jesus fuck you are a little beta bitch maid.

Just get the strapon in your ass already.

Title	My old oneitis just went to a concert, and got to "meet the band"
Author	Schrodingersdawg
Upvotes	31
Comments	64
Date	April 26, 2014 9:40 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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