What are your biggest weaknesses in game?

run_fast-eat_ass · 2019-03-11T20:55:51+00:00

My biggest weakness is definitely dealing with groups of girls. Usually in the group, there is always one (sorry to be rude but ugly and jealous b*tch) who decides it's her mission to cock-block me as much as she can. Also, girls are way more defensive in groups.

The way I try to combat this is draw the girl out of the group e.g. dancing with her or going to the bar.

When it comes to the professional cock-blocker, I usually get a mate to distract her; if that isn't working, I just have to try my hardest to make the fittie laugh etc.

billiam632 · 2019-03-11T19:45:08+00:00

Staying relaxed in social settings.

No one would ever guess that I am nervous by looking at me. But mentally I just overthink and over analyze. I have gotten better at stopping myself in the moment but it still happens constantly and by the time I stop, its usually too late.

folasanmi · 2019-03-11T19:48:10+00:00

Well, they’re are a lot. But for each their is a similar trend. Too scared and don’t know how. Toos cared to open and don’t know how to. Too scared to escalate and don’t know how to. Too scared to close etc etc

Kenic_In_MD · 2019-03-11T21:45:53+00:00

Closing. And by that I mean bringing her back to my place, I can approach easily, get the number easily, get the date easily, build attraction yadda yadda. but I need to work on sealing the deal.

darksidessj25 · 2019-03-11T22:53:38+00:00

For me it's getting her contact into.

hydrolith · 2019-03-11T23:43:43+00:00

I feel it'shaving a life a love and being a person I love. The background and energy behind everything else can get in the way of the energy being portrayed when trying to meet new people.

Not_creative_fun · 2019-03-12T00:07:39+00:00

I think my biggest weakness right now is that I don’t seem to know what my biggest weakness is. My problem lately has been that I don’t seem to be getting any better at game and I’ve hit a ceiling.

Not_My_Real_Acct_ · 2019-03-12T00:25:55+00:00

For me, it was a "quantity vs quality" thing. Basically I found that my Game was good at amassing a 'bullpen' of women, but every last one of them was low-quality. There isn't a single one that I could envision spending all my time with.

That hung like a black cloud in my life; for instance, there was one girl who had great tits but was dumb as a box of rocks. Another was very interesting to talk to, and a wonderful friend, but hopelessly homely. So if I was with the first girl, I'd be missing the conversations that I could have with the 2nd girl. And when I was with the 2nd girl, I'd be wincing when I saw her naked.

Now, the obvious solution would be to invest in someone that's high quality. But that's something that sucks about my Game, not only does it NOT work with high quality women, it actually repels them. Here's an example:

If you 'Neg' a girl with Daddy Issues, she'll often respond positively. Because of this, 'negs' can be used as a litmus test to find girls with Daddy Issues. But if you 'neg' a girl who has self esteem and a good relationship with her Dad, you'll come off as a complete douchebag.

HeavyMeringue · 2019-03-12T00:50:02+00:00

Feelings,here and there and giving girls validation.

NjguypAP26 · 2019-03-12T02:55:27+00:00

For me it’s keeping the conversation going, I’ve worked on my AA, still get little nervous while approaching but I do it anyways. But then I run out of things to say and mumble a lot of nonsense which gives away weak vibe.

chronosthetitan · 2019-03-12T05:26:27+00:00

Patience, is what gets me a majority of the time. Ever since I worked through one night stands mentally, i ran into issues with differences in morality.a lot of girls will like you enough to get with you, but not every chick will leave with you.

TheThing345 · 2019-03-12T06:22:28+00:00

Opening groups, which is 99% of what you'll meet in clubs..

No issues charming them after I actually got the foot in the door though

Title	What are your biggest weaknesses in game?
Author	ZarathustraSpenta
Upvotes	7
Comments	13
Date	March 11, 2019 7:07 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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