I'm 31, am I too old to date young, attractive women/

nyrp · 2015-02-26T16:10:05+00:00

There's not enough here to say what you're doing wrong.

But in principle, there's definitely no reason a 31 year-old can't date a young, attractive woman.

Sounds like you got the attractive body thing going, but there must be something off-putting about the way you interact with women. Go figure out what it is.

But age shouldn't be an issue. I'm 34, seeing a 23-year old. And for Tinder, going out with even 20 year olds shouldn't be an issue.

bicepsblastingstud · 2015-02-26T17:38:57+00:00

I'm angry, negative, and bitter as fuck

Why on earth would anybody want to spend time around you?

tepper2 · 2015-02-26T16:14:46+00:00

At no point in your post did you say anything about your personality. I suspect that's the problem. Your attitude is that you deserve the attention of attractive women. You don't deserve shit.

It's hard not to think of all of the old guy getting young girls stories on TRP as not being total bullshit

K. Keep thinking that, less competition for the rest of us in our 30s.

[deleted] · 2015-02-26T16:14:54+00:00

Get rejected at bars, on tinder all the time

That's what every successful player says. First, get off of Tinder because it's a waste of time. A girl who says No to you on Tinder is the same one who would approach you if she saw you in a bar.

Game is a science, if you give more details about the rejections then the solution is easier to obtain

Danedina · 2015-02-26T16:27:20+00:00

The legends are true. You are entering your prime as a potential mate in the eyes of nubiles of all ages.

AlphaAccountant · 2015-02-26T18:27:09+00:00

I can't wait to be in my in thirties.

Women despise responsibility and accountability. They basically are seeking a surrogate father. As long as you are in shape, guess what, they're automatically more attracted to you. (Side note, this is an idea I've been thinking of expanding on in the main sub).

kingofpoplives · 2015-02-26T18:32:02+00:00

am I too old to date young, attractive women

God no. I'm 31 and dating a hot 23 year old.

Your problem is your have no game, a defeatist attitude, and crippling insecurity. I wish you luck figuring that stuff out.

edwardhwhite · 2015-02-26T20:08:32+00:00

absolutely not. I'm 46. When I was in Monk Mode I was getting ready to date late '30s women. I was surprised to find I'm getting interest from women in their 20s consistently.

cray-cray-cray · 2015-02-26T21:37:02+00:00

3) Women still don't want me. Get rejected at bars, on tinder all the time.

Suck it up, pussy. That happens to everyone, for all kinds of reasons.

Wait, but not even women my age want me. Am I fucked? I'm not even ugly either. I have 1000+ matches on tinder in a month (with auto-swipe) but most women flake from there.

trololololol!!! You must be joking. Do you know the audience here? Most guys would kill to have a head start like that.

You need to figure out what is creating problems for you. Let's eliminate looks.

Decent looking 31 year olds fuck 18 year olds on a regular basis. So, now we can eliminate age too.

What else?

From a different comment...

I'm angry, negative, and bitter as fuck, but according to TRP, that attracts women, right?

No. It scares them. I'll be shocked if you're not trolling at this point. 1000 tinder matches, you should be able to fuck a few younger girls even if you show up with the most ridiculous case of roid rage.

oldredder · 2015-02-27T05:55:05+00:00

not too old.

Bars: try to let the women chase you. Some will and that works: once she knows she has to work for it she knows you assume you have value more than her.

Tinder: I don't use it, can't advise

mty_green_go · 2015-02-26T17:51:38+00:00

I was in a similar situation. I am pretty successful, 31, I work out all the time and maintain excellent hygiene, and back in the day had a 9 rating on hot or not. After a 5 year LTR it's like I became invisible. I still did OK at the bar, but it was an unbelievable fuckload of work for low quality girls.

I moved to another country and when I enter the bar or the room, everyone turns their head and stares at me. Girls at the gym make eye contact with me every day. Once at a concert a girl approached me and eventually offered her phone number without asking. I'm not saying that is your solution, I'm just trying to say I understand, the quality and reliability of women in the U.S. has gone to total shit

edit: after reading some of your other replies it sounds like you need to work a bit internally on "you"

Title	I'm 31, am I too old to date young, attractive women/
Author	31yearoldmanmanman
Upvotes	0
Comments	24
Date	February 26, 2015 4:07 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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