I once told her. But it can hurt me, I realize now. I hadn't taken into account just how detrimental a level of comfort with a person you grow to care for can be.

I'm stuck between the sword and the wall on whether or not I should allow my girlfriend to have guy "friends."

Actually, being real here, I'm avoiding the bigger problem. I don't have that amount of control over her regardless, she dreads the thought of me leaving but either way I can't trust her. I made a girlfriend out of a poor choice, I knew this was coming.

I should have nexted her a long time ago but as someone who'd never been in a relationship, I gathered invaluable experience from this, and being honest I've grown somewhat attached.

I'm conforming because it's easy not entering in the dating pool and not be rejected by women.

I can't tell her not to see other guys because that shows it bothers me, and what bothers me makes me look like a bitch. A man with an alpha mindset would understand what's going on and move on.

I know I can't hold a girlfriend yet.

I don't need answers anymore, this helped me sort things out.

But I welcome any comments.

Edit: Actually I do have two questions, should I next her even if I'm getting laid every day? When you turn a girl into a plate is it done as a statement or is it a covert transition?