I've been dating this woman for around a month and when we are together it's great. We laugh and joke and we have sex all the time. Im the only guy shes sleeping with, but she knows I date other girls. But the big issue is she can be flaky. I'm usually pretty understanding since she is a mother and has shit going on, and alot of crazy last minute stuff. I know it's just family chaos stuff, and she isnt lying to me. I'm pretty good at soft probing that kind of stuff. but these last 2 days have got me questioning her respect for me and questioning my respect for myself.

So I stayed the night Friday and had breakfast Saturday. We made plans to go to a bar later. She texts me at 7 saying shes already at a bar with a female friend who showed up to town. I responded telling her I thought it was messed up and especially thought it was weird that I wasn't invited. She calls and apologizes and asks if I forgive her. I tell her obviously annoyed that it doesn't matter anyways, you still bailed. And in her mind she took that as I forgave her.

So this morning she texts me at830 with a "Gm baby wyd" 10 mins later "Come lay with me"

So I text at 9 saying I'm gonna shower and come over. Figure I'll get some apology sex.

I show up at 930 and her car is gone. No text or call. It's currently been an hour and a half and I'm reading doing my own thing but I'm really questioning if I should bail on this relationship.

Any help is greatly appreciated.