My dick size holds me back with girls, I don’t know what to do.

weesteve123 · 2019-05-20T19:16:47+00:00

how bad are we talking dude?

If you can get them going first, i.e go down on them (but make sure you're good at it) I think your dick wouldn't matter as much.

zErh0 · 2019-05-20T23:28:23+00:00

Do not date cruel bitches. Date people you will actually like, laugh with and with whom you can get in a situation where you care about each other at least a bit, enough to not just disregard a person like a piece of trash because of their physical features.
It's not about size of the boat, it's about rocking of the ocean. Learn cunnilingus, manual stimulation, make her come before you even take your pants off, and she'll be in no mood to leave. Make it fun. Make her feel good (not with your penis, yet), and when she's comfy and wet and having a good time, make the penis-vagina interaction just an addition to already fun event.
If someone leaves after seeing your dick, even though they were into you before that, I'd say that is not a person worthy of your time or attention, so really, you're better off not fucking them.

blargymcfard · 2019-05-21T11:59:29+00:00

I have a friend with a very small dick who gets laid all the time. I've never seen it, but he says it is and a few women I know who have slept with him have confirmed it's pretty tiny.

He also makes jokes about it in the company of women. He jokingly refers to himself as "hung like a Tic-Tac" around girls. This prepares his potential bedmates for the inevitable reveal, and it shows he isn't self conscious about it and is willing to have a sense of humor about it.

Being completely honest here, my dick is really big or at least I've been told it is. At times it is frustrating because some women just can't handle it. But my friend gets laid a lot more than I do because he's outgoing, loud, funny, and is willing to put himself out there.

stevenmarkryan · 2019-05-21T18:24:11+00:00

Just own it bro. You can't change it.

If you are confident in yourself, women will find that super attractive.

If you're chatting and flirting with a woman, don't be afraid to tell her you have a tiny dick with confidence. Just own it. For 99% of women, it's not going to be a deal breaker. They'll find the confidence attractive. Some may even take it as a chance to escalate "Show me" etc.

chaosandmayhem · 2019-05-20T19:15:04+00:00

Buy a Bathmate!

There are ways to make your penis look larger. One common trick used in the porn industry is shaving public hair.

sexualdream · 2019-05-20T19:22:37+00:00

Smaller penis are harder than bigger penis in general, especially if ur a grower. Hardness matters as well.

getyourlifeplease · 2019-05-20T19:49:25+00:00

So if you have a MICRO penis (3" or less) then honestly I believe that is something the girl should know before yall get down to it! That is not exactly a "surprise" you wanna spring on someone in the heat of the moment...

If it is above that sz, then maybe it is your insecurity about it that turns the girls off?!

Title	My dick size holds me back with girls, I don’t know what to do.
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Comments	22
Date	May 20, 2019 7:12 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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