Tried to have sex on a second date... failed but she wants a third date?

hunterpua · 2019-06-19T17:01:48+00:00

She really likes you. She said sorry because she is aware that it can be frustrating to expect sex but not get it.

If she didn't like you she wouldn't give a shit that you could be frustrated.

Kenic_In_MD · 2019-06-19T15:58:41+00:00

what is this? Are you just looking to hook up?

A shit test mixed with LMR. She was down to smash, if you turned this into a joke and then watched what she was DOING (body language) instead of saying then you would've been good to go. I probably would have turned her comment into a joke then proceeded with escalating.

Sometimes a girl waits until the arbitrary number of the third date (typically the "sex date") in order to have sex with you. No idea why. Honesty is good and all but sometimes it doesn't work when trying to get to nekkid fun times.

Also, can anyone give me an idea why she felt sorry when she told me she doesn't do hook ups?

She DOES do hookups, more than likely. Just didn't with you and she possibly felt guilty because of it, making her feel bad. Girls are weird man lol Just continue playing it cool and enjoying yourself, the third date you should be more than fine. Remember, read her body language!!!

I have an FR in my post history where a girl was literally in her underwear in my bed saying how she "doesn't do hook ups" I stopped listening to what she was saying and started watching what she was doing. Boots were KNOCKED. I'll help you out a bit here is a link to the FR

Doc_holidazed · 2019-06-19T20:32:21+00:00

Always be honest with your intentions. You'd be surprised how often a girl says "I'm not interested in hook ups", and you say "Well I am not looking for anything serious, let me know if you change your mind", and then after a week or two she changes her mind. Women want casual stuff too they just need to trust & be comfortable with you first.

Violetta311 · 2019-06-19T20:14:43+00:00

Women apologize for all kinds of reasons, I wouldn’t worry about it. Google “why do women apologize so much” if you want to learn about that.

I have apologized before in that situation because I know it’s frustrating. It’s frustrating for me too but I don’t have sex with guys until I’m confident we are sexually compatible, it will be mind blowing, and the guy cares about me.

Don’t worry about what you want, or she wants, out of the relationship. It’s too early. If you want to have sex with her more than once, I suggest planning an active next date in locations where you can’t really have sex. Turn her on and maintain that arousal throughout the date. Make her really want to fuck, but know she can’t fuck you then because you are playing putt putt golf or whatever. (LOL ). I mean, if she drags you into an alley or a bathroom and says fuck me, by all means do it! But if you have the self control to make date #3 a big tease session, building up the sexual tension and also demonstrating your dick control, you will have amazing sex on date number 4 that she fantasized about every day between date #3 and 4. If you want, you will be able to keep having sex with her because the sex was great and she wanted it BEFORE she was able to get it.

Title	Tried to have sex on a second date... failed but she wants a third date?
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Date	June 19, 2019 3:06 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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