How to reply to a girl who tells you how much she doesn't like her ex?

vandaalen · 2015-03-26T19:15:00+00:00

Wait til she is finished.

"Oh man. I can relate. I am totally like that guy."

or

"Finsished? Fine. ..." switch topics.

or

"I just read yesterday that the Mauritius post office stamps are worth $4 million."

"What has that got to do with what I told you?"

"Sorry. I thought we were exchanging useless facts."

or

While she is in the middle of ranting, depending on where you at, get up and leave the room to go to the toilet or go and get a new coffee for you or whatever without saying anything. Behave like you are there alone. When you come back just sit down and act like nothing happened.

enticingasthatmaybe · 2015-03-26T18:37:16+00:00

"Wow... I dig this cat already"

Is she trying to make me compete with him by telling her I'd never do the things he did...?

LOL... don't tell her that. Have you read any of the main page resources?

MuchAdoAboutNada · 2015-03-26T18:38:23+00:00

Are you sexual with this girl?

She's probably using you as an emotional tampon.

fnordsnord · 2015-03-26T18:41:16+00:00

Escalate kino. Touch her. Go for the kiss. If you get the cheek or the duck, next. If she was over him, you wouldn't be getting this crap. This way you'll know for sure.

And no, never qualify yourself to woman deliberately.

Stayinghereforreal · 2015-03-26T19:31:31+00:00

Change the topic to something else you find interesting, like redirecting a kid's attention away from whatever is making them act out.

kingofpoplives · 2015-03-26T20:28:06+00:00

She basically gave me some big list of why she hates him.

Huge red flag.

Personally, I just don't even respond to this type of discussion. Past dicks are not a valid topic of conversation and should never be mentioned.

swoleo_dicaprio · 2015-03-27T00:08:49+00:00

Agree & amplify. "You sound like you're still hung up on this guy. Why don't you go give him a call?"

Title	How to reply to a girl who tells you how much she doesn't like her ex?
Author	MuchAdoAboutNada
Upvotes	4
Comments	11
Date	March 26, 2015 6:33 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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