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[–]jacksonvilles 6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That said, your use of the word "crush" means you've already lost. You're overinvested.
That just means he thinks she's hot, lol. Don't read too much into things
[–]sasasasa101 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactlyy!!
I used that for the lack of a better word.
[–]fndmb2bruh 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Be careful with the whole sexual harassment thing nowadays. Also if things go awry with her, it WILL get weird if you have to see eachother every day so make sure you have a back up plan (ie you can transfer to another department, have another job etc). The potential headaches are not really worth it.
She is a HR, just an fyi!
[–]kalz44 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If I was willing to take that risk, I would probably organize a happy hour and invite a bunch of coworkers including the crush then once I’m outside of work I’d pursue her like she’s not a coworker. My one question to you is, how are your dating options outside of work? Because if that’s your only dating option is at job that a problem...unless she’s also into you.
[–]sasasasa101 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Um actually i have multiple options outside the office but you know there’s that hot chick in the office everyone has there eyes on? She’s that! The happy hour thing sounds cool but cannot work as she is in HR Department(i am in construction designing).
[–]ReefLedger 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Office job for a top bank and have pulled many coworkers over the years...keep it light and friendly, maintain your professionalism at work, and you'll be fine.
If it gets serious, you're opening a whole new can of worms. That being said, my 2 longest relationships were with coworkers 🤷♂️
[–]joelhamptn -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just look for choosing signals
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