How to have a strong frame and energy on bad days?

ItsTonesOClock · 2019-08-01T20:54:37+00:00

You mean to say you're human? You don't have to be on all the time. People who try to be fun all the time can actually be quite annoying and over bearing after a while. Nothing wrong with having some personal time where you're not constantly ON.

FitAttention9 · 2019-08-01T16:22:55+00:00

I've experienced this as well man. Some days when I'm out daygaming, I'm in a great mood and great body language/eye contact/tonality and clever things to say just come to me. Others (like yesterday) I feel like a hardcase newbie again and can barely approach + am in my head. I don't think it's possible to be 100% confident all the time. I've realized that emotional states are impermanent and I'll probably have a great day sometime in the next week... it does get frustrating though

rajsaxena · 2019-08-01T17:15:49+00:00

Take a break on bad days. If you try to force it on days when you're super tired and down, you're going to end up hating the process and burning out.

2019-08-01T17:58:36+00:00

Some days, you won't have much energy. It's like the weather.

You don't need to have high energy to talk to someone, so if you want to, then don't let it stop you. Your chances of pulling are lower, but you shouldn't be approaching only for the chance of pulling anyway.

smoothmax · 2019-08-02T02:01:09+00:00

Remain present and use your body language to do the talking. This will help you stay out of your head and keep the conversation flowing. I use body language now and it has improved my game a fucking shit ton. I'm literally in a new reality now and all I have to say is have fun and amp up the vibe. It's all how you are expressing your self, how congruent you can be with your thoughts words and actions. Don't worry to much about eye contact because it won't feel natural if you do and it will be kind of forced. You want the warm kind of eye contact with a warm smile.

Title	How to have a strong frame and energy on bad days?
Author	legend503
Upvotes	4
Comments	11
Date	August 1, 2019 4:17 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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