Hello asktrp, I just wanted your valuable opinion about a situation i found myself into and my course of action in said situation, trying to find a way to improve and identify mistakes.

Before I get to the story: english is not my first lenguage, so feel free to ask questions in case I' m not clear enough.

I met G. doing a research in my university, we went out for beers a couple of times where i noticed she always tried to be dominant using jokes at my expenses specially about my hobbies, I always responded putting her in her place without esitation creating a playful banter, she often did the same in texts.

Yesterday i invited her for lunch and she flaked last minute with a shitty excuse, joking about me being butthurt for the missed appointment. I treated it like a shit test, texting back that i was so devastated i was going to eat icecream and cry all day.

Same evening another text, asking if our lunch was supposed to be a date, since i already decided to next her and being sure it was a set up for her next punchline my answer was "nah, i just date the hot ones".

Her next text included the suggestion to see a shrink, calling me not funny, pathetic, unpleasant, unpolite and saying to not call or text her again. I was pretty surprised to see such a strong answer since we exchanged harder blows in the past, so i just wrote something in the line of "i guess someone got offended. Have a nice day! "

Please i' d like your opinion, don' t worry to hurt me, being the first time with this kind of girl i' m sure there' s space for improvement.