Can an obese Male attract women?

canseiDeSerEnganado · 2019-09-13T20:30:05+00:00

It will be way easier to attract women (also men) if you are not obese. Having a good shape shows other people that you care about your health and are not lazy with your body, that are attractive traits in a person.

joejohns90 · 2019-09-13T20:31:36+00:00

You should get fit for yourself. You’ll be much happier, believe me.

paulvario11 · 2019-09-13T20:35:56+00:00

the problem about being obese is that the penis will look miniscule and that what goes on women minds

Welocme2Ell · 2019-09-13T20:45:27+00:00

100 per cent yes - I am 6"2 and went from 227p to 199p and 27% body fat to 16% (still not finished ) over the past 4 months , just eating clean and gym . Honestly best decision i ever made , crazy how much your own self confidence improves .

Woman treat you different to , one funny thing i notice is i constantly get mothered if i am in a cafe or food place , they bring over tissues and spoons asking if i need something , just random things , never happened before .

its more the little things with woman , they are mainly discreet , until they are drunk lol .

crawleycrepe · 2019-09-13T20:56:59+00:00

Can an obese woman attract a man?

Girls care about looks the same way that we do. Don't fall for the PUA hype that girls don't care about looks and only how you make them feel lol (as someone with good looking friends, I still laugh at some of the stuff people believe when it comes to this stuff!)

There will be some girls out there who don't care that you're fat, but lose some weight, and you'll increase the amount of girls who will be attracted to you.

Good luck, broseph!!

2019-09-13T20:29:57+00:00

It also depends on what you look like. I like a heavier man if he carries it well. If he has a gorgeous face/eyes. A lot goes into consideration!

thedudeinaredhoodie · 2019-09-13T20:30:11+00:00

personal image is everything. Im 510 and was 300 pounds in early January. Now im 210. women do take notice. Take care of yourself homie

gviccati · 2019-09-13T20:30:19+00:00

Yes and yes. It's not your fault they like other type of male physical. Understand this! But if want attractive women is totally that way.

Cameron3862 · 2019-09-13T20:30:48+00:00

Losing weight will help with your overall mindset but isn't the sole reason why I started getting more attention from girls - women are attracted to confidence. I found once starting to eat right and going to the gym I felt better about my self which in turn made me more out-going and willing to put myself out there. DM if you have any questions.

smoothmax · 2019-09-13T20:37:46+00:00

Losing weight is great.

But I thought when I watched The Crimes of Grindlewald that the heavier guy dating the bombshell who looks like Uma Thurman is believable as a love interest. Even though they wrote his character as a bit insecure and chode-like he carries it well.

Bitchesluvcake · 2019-09-13T21:40:41+00:00

I would be fine dating someone obese if I saw they were working towards a healthier lifestyle. Like if I saw they were trying to cook healthier, etc.

I just want to be with someone who is healthy and will be there to help take care of our kids/family some day. I want them to teach our kids how to be healthy (physically and mentally). Nobody is perfect and we are all a work in progress.

Sweaty_Gym_Sock_ · 2019-09-14T08:05:10+00:00

yes dude. im 6 foot, 280 lbs. just have a sense of humor and dont be a jackass and you can do it man.

2019-09-14T17:38:30+00:00

First-Ship-811 · 2022-01-28T13:30:02+00:00

Not much of a chance unless the woman herself is obese.. I have been borderline obese all my life and still a virgin for obvious reasons.😂

Maybe dick size does not matter to women, but a fit external physical appearance sure as hell does matter !

Title	Can an obese Male attract women?
Author	Hatt700
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Comments	16
Date	September 13, 2019 8:20 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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