I don't know what I'm doing wrong

WIA20XX · 2019-10-04T06:02:28+00:00

So...

Stop flirting.

Don't do any of that jokey jokey stuff. No push pull, no negs, no shocker statements. Drop all the standard attraction game meant to get emotional engagement.

Assume the girl is digging you just off looks alone. Aka assume attraction.

Go with a more serious approach. Somebody posted this recently.

https://youtu.be/1TO1OpxGqFI

There is not much flirty about this approach.

I can give you more tech to use or why this is happening, but the main issue is changing your approach to the attraction phase.

magnetradio · 2019-10-04T03:52:36+00:00

Don't expect fireworks all the time. Don't look for validation. You're flirting with her to brighten her day, not to give you an ego boost with her good reaction.

When you talk to women, let a situation present itself for you to flirt. Just asking questions can feel like an interrogation and just throwing out lines can be a little cheesy. But if something happens and you throw out a clever line because the situation presented itself, you'll get the reaction you wanted.

GabacciStyles · 2019-10-04T04:14:36+00:00

The fact ur trying is the problem, just chill and they gonna be on ur dick in no time

sinbad2011 · 2019-10-04T12:23:22+00:00

Is your interaction with the girls like a man who is her friend only? or is ur vibe the leader who bangs a lot of girls and knows how to have fun?

if its the latter, they should be chasing you.

AFL-NOEL · 2019-10-04T06:17:18+00:00

Whenever I get “rejected” (it means nothing to me so I put in quotes lol) I always immediately think the next girl I talk to may be the next girl I hookup w/ the same day I meet her and I am really excited to talk to the next girl.. make sure you’re not creating a story about all this stuff that is messing up your vibe, and make sure you have fun with it all brother.. remember there’s 7.7 billion people on earth, it’s like a treasure hunt lol.. here’s a new daygame video in Miami Beach for added inspiration, sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/Gvwl08jWIyQ

Title	I don't know what I'm doing wrong
Author	okabekudo
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	October 4, 2019 3:09 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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