Being forward on Tinder

MarianneThornberry · 2019-10-26T18:15:14+00:00

Lmao no. Don't EVER be forward on tinder. Every girl on tinder will be receiving 10s of 100s of messages from guys being forward as all hell and pretty much failing. Girls on tinder will have their Fuccboi Radar on overdrive.

Being too forward is practically self-sabotage and will only really work if the girl is already DTF in which case, your game will have very little influence on that besides fucking it up.

As a golden rule of thumb, always remember that girls on tinder know exactly why you're there. They know what the endgame is. So there is no need to push hard for it. All you have to do is just pass the shit tests, separate yourself from the pack by not getting too invested, and excite her by being spontaneous and having a zero fucks mentality. In other words, show her you don't give a shit and can easily walk away but you're curious enough to see where this goes.

Tinder is a power game. Girls are there to get validation from the attention, guys are there to smash.

The good news is its a mutually beneficial outcome. But the dynamic relies on you holding your power as much as possible until she's invested.

Under no circumstance do you call the girl shit like beautiful or sexy or nice eyes yada yada yada. That's weak and gives away your power instantly. The girl will no longer have any reason to be invested because you've already rewarded her with what she was seeking out. Boom. She moves onto the next guy for her next fix.

Really your objective on Tinder is just screen the girl to see if she's cool and get her off the app ASAP. But the tricky part is you gotta do this in a way that makes her think you're in no rush and it's just whatever.

Again, girls know why you're there. They have no delusions about that. It's about how you carry yourself from point A to point B that they'll be paying attention to.

Escalate very slowly, start with light hearted innocent jokes. And gradually progress into more sexual undertones. But you have to be VERY fucking subtle. Like subtle enough that it forces her to think deep about it. When she questions it or shit tests it, just make a silly joke and tell her she's overthinking it in a sly way.

Make her feel a bit self-conscious, tease her. No don't neg her. Negging is fucking stupid and she'll notice and cringe at it immediately. What I mean is tease her in a way that makes her care about how you view her. Make it clear that she has to work a bit harder than just taking some edited selfies to win you over.

Can she dance better than your mother? Whats her best joke? Little things like that.

The trick is without her even noticing, you've planted the idea of her wanting to game you into her head.

After that it's just a matter of logistics, get her number/snap/insta or whatever.

And then meet up in person. And only then, once you have her full undivided attention can you game her properly and establish what you're looking for.

caesarfecit · 2019-10-26T17:23:33+00:00

I find the trick to being forward with women is to strike when the iron is hot. Being forward right off the bat is leading with your chin. The plus side is what girls do respond will be more interested, but many girls will get turned off.

Let them chase your approval, invest a little, and build a vibe. Then you escalate and frame it as a reward. Then you're not being desperate or flattering, you're giving her what she earned.

Another trick is to match the reward to the type of compliance she's giving. If she's giving lots of emotional compliance, you give her some good feels. If she's giving lots of sexual compliance, you show some desire. If she's giving lots of practical compliance, you escalate by organizing a date. When you get really good at this, you can use one type of compliance to open up others.

ImmediateDisaster6 · 2019-10-28T07:58:37+00:00

Being forward as in 'lets fuck'? No. Even Chad can barely pull that off.

Being fun and introducing a sexual frame? Yes. Check this out:

https://imgur.com/a/FZRMKwt/

cropofkismet · 2022-03-15T02:12:12+00:00

Oh you're on Tinder but you're judging LGBT Catholics? Wild!

Title	Being forward on Tinder
Author	_SaintJimmy_
Upvotes	10
Comments	13
Date	October 26, 2019 4:23 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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