To Direct? "Not currently looking" response

Atriev · 2019-11-26T22:12:05+00:00

So you opened and closed her in the same sentence?

You’re shooting yourself in the foot. You’re literally forcing her to make a decision about you with almost no interaction. She has no idea how cool you are.

quinnmcd · 2019-11-26T21:35:33+00:00

or she actually was not looking, which I doubt

I don't understand why you would doubt this if when there was no reason to lie. imo "I'm not looking for anything" either is a soft rejection or she is more focused on herself and her goals. I wouldn't try to pursue her again.

How successful are you with your approaches? I understand you don't want to waste time, but your approach does little to nothing to build comfort or actually get her interested in you. Unless your an 8 out of 10 or above in the looks department it is more beneficial to talk to them for a few minutes and ask for their number before asking them on a date. Having the mindset of what is she doing to earn a date is important to make sure you're not overly investing in a girl.

getyourlifeplease · 2019-11-26T21:30:22+00:00

But this girl told me smiling that she wasn't looking currently and really admired my honesty.

She was being polite, turning you down, but also paid you a compliment! Sounds like she was sincere...👌

mjshibz · 2019-11-27T01:33:23+00:00

That’s a nice way of saying no thanks

Justthetruf · 2019-11-27T00:21:58+00:00

Something I think more of you need to understand is that not every woman is going to be into you. Your game can be a 10 and to some women that makes no difference they want something specific or already have that specific thing.

A buddy of mine incredible with random women. Just really smooth. Never has an issue getting strangers numbers. He walks out of this store upset about this girl not giving him the digits. I walk into the same store started hitting on the girl and walked out with her number.

I've had the same happen to me. Don't sweat the small stuff.

givenchyboy · 2019-11-26T21:30:40+00:00

A good response would be “I’m not looking ether, if you know what I mean” she’s probably dtf and not interested in anything serious.

Title	To Direct? "Not currently looking" response
Author	Vlekkeloos
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	November 26, 2019 9:20 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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