Dating a lot of girls with no continuation !

Aghayden · 2019-11-28T10:24:48+00:00

It could be that they're not getting invested enough (meaning the conversation was too surface level, you didn't make a deeper connection). Or it could be that they just wanted to hook up on the first date and you didn't make a move. A lot of times, if a girl wants a one-night stand and you don't make it happen, the window closes.

rich_god · 2019-11-28T10:41:51+00:00

What about physical escalation ? I think you seem a bit too needy / eager, and are too much in your head. Don't try to make them laugh or to be a gentleman. Don't show more interest than what comes naturally. Be authentic, use silences, talk about emotions and feelings and stay connected to your body.

Maybe this will help you, it seems related to your issue : https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dnjzzo/dont_try_to_get_her_interested_attraction_is/

bemore_ · 2019-11-28T12:17:35+00:00

Just learn from them. Troubleshoot, stop for a moment and see what the commonalities are, maybe get down a list and then improve on one thing that you think could have a big impact, look closely at what you should stop doing, what you can let go of. Often doing less is more effective but also, doing the same things is just a comfort zone. It's like doing something because it worked once or not doing something cos it didn't work that one time.

A big clue that can help you troubleshoot is using friendship as a measure. Some friends want to hang out again with you right and some are just more like acquaintances you're friendly with but when you think of doing something they don't come up in your mind. So what is it about those friendships that allowed you to connect and grow your relationship. It's very similar with women, except with women you want to fuck them but fucking is a small part of the interaction, you see

MountainClimax · 2019-11-28T11:33:43+00:00

Are you talking too much about yourself? Removing mystery? Are you being too nice? Seems to me like you aren't being authentic. You aren't communicating what you want from them, truly. Try it next time and see.

Odz86 · 2019-11-28T17:18:21+00:00

-Making them laugh. has no survival & reproduction value

-Teasing. has minimal survival & reproduction value

-Eye contact. has minimal survival & reproduction value

-Showing interst and asking them about themselves.

has no survival & reproduction value, not to mention "disinterest makes interest"

-Being a gentleman(Holding the door,paying the drink,being cheerful,accompany them to metro/bus/car,...etc) has no survival & reproduction value

-Being myself. has no survival & reproduction value

Look up DHV. These things count:

• Preselection from other women

• Appearing to be a leader of men

• Being supporter and protector of those you love

• Being nonneedy

• Being unaffected

• Social intelligence

• Negging her (this IOD is a DHV also)

• Having a strong frame

• Having interesting knowledge

• Emotional stimulation

• Being socially "in demand"—other people are seeking your attention or validation (alternately they are paying attention to what you are saying)

• Connecting conversationally

ChrisDarmount · 2019-11-28T19:41:58+00:00

If the girls are actually making an effort to come out with you, you’re not getting rejected because they have too many options.

The reason for this is because they only have so much effort to expend on going out on dates. If they went out on a date with you and didn’t want to go out on a second date, then they are disappointed too because now they have to go on a first date with someone else.

I don’t know what you are doing wrong, It could just be that you’re having a unlucky streak. But it also could be that you are not attracting them for some reason.

My advice would be to go out on a lot of dates, some of them will inevitably work out. And you’ll get practice. I also might suggest focusing less on pick up advice and just being confident and having fun. The problem with too much focus on pick up advice is that it’s too much at one time and you will not be having genuine and fun interactions. The women will sense this and they won’t like it.

Aghayden · 2019-11-28T10:20:18+00:00

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Title	Dating a lot of girls with no continuation !
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Date	November 28, 2019 10:18 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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