So I have attempted to make a decent amount of connections with women at my university but I’ve had a big problem. I’m just not sure what it is but a good majority have flaked or ignored me. A common occurrence for me is for me to get a girls snap/#, ask them out to lunch/dinner that day. The common result I get is either a “I can’t, i’m busy this week” or just a simple open and ignore. Like a specific example being a girl who I’ve asked in person to get dinner just lying to my face. She said she’d text me that day but then never did. The fact that she has done it multiple times has caused me to not acknowledge her at all since. I’m just wondering, why could cause me to just have such a bad run here at college?

The thing is when I’m out at like a music event, (edm) I have attracted very good looking women at quite a few shows. I just feel at university, I am invisible to the women here I’m interested in. So I guess two questions in total. Why does it seem like getting a girl who is available, who I’m interested in, and who’s interested in me seem impossible at university? It just seems all my life, those three have never all been met at the same time. Secondly, am I in the right for ignoring girls who have indirectly rejected me?