Is it a good or bad thing that my women friends ask me about my dating life?

zaputo · 2019-12-15T18:09:30+00:00

My general experience has been girls don't usually talk about their current dating lives with people they view as potential interests. Unless it's in generalities and innuendo, like, "I love it when a guy..."

axe122 · 2019-12-15T19:11:53+00:00

If a girl asks you this again say something like “wouldn’t you like to know? And I don’t kiss and tell” just keep it vague and give the impression you have women all the time. Even if your already friend zoned with them or they may have boyfriends. Flirting with these girls makes them still sorta like you and they will view you as potential for one of their hot girlfriends. I used to never be at all flirty with friends wives and girlfriends and while I have no interest in them and I don’t cross that invisible line . I’m a lot more playful and a little flirty with them since I noticed they always seem to wanna set the guy who has a lot of girls up with one of their girlfriends not the guy who could actually use the set up. Basically act like the guy they tel their girlfriend she should meet you. If the girls single and you want her go for it, don’t tell her you like her will get you rejected 95% of the time, you have to show her that you like her(especially if you’ve known her for a little and may be in the friendzone)

luchirocca · 2019-12-15T18:08:16+00:00

Not good advice incoming: Forget about all that and sleep with some of them. What u gon lose???

Umbran_scale · 2019-12-15T18:18:05+00:00

it's to make you feel included so when they talk about their own dating life you're not feeling left out of the topic.

2019-12-15T20:11:55+00:00

It depends on how you act around them. Maybe they’re asking because they’re your mommy, or maybe because they’re trying to scope out your value. There’s a pretty clean and noticeable divide imo.

J-D_M · 2019-12-15T18:43:59+00:00

You're in the friend-zone with them. Unless you create some energy & intrigue, you will stay there. It sounds like you're fine being in the friend-zone though. So in that case, it's a good thing. They trust you.

chromepickle · 2019-12-15T22:42:05+00:00

What if you haven't any women friends?

EngineeredKing · 2019-12-16T10:48:44+00:00

It’s relative depending on what your looking for. Most of the time they’re just curious and probably don’t see you as more than a friend. If you’re looking for just friendship anyway then it’s not a bad thing. If you’re interested in more then usually it’s her way of indirectly deflecting your interest.

Quite rarely it might be her way of gauging her competition, but you want to stay away from those types of girls

bldbill · 2019-12-15T22:35:05+00:00

Well either they’re interested or want to hook you up with someone

volcanolairbadguy · 2019-12-16T01:49:54+00:00

They probably want it lol. Its more common after 25 as baby rabies kicks into overdrive. Strap up bro. Accidentally on purpose pregnancy awaits.

Title	Is it a good or bad thing that my women friends ask me about my dating life?
Author	MeanInitial9
Upvotes	36
Comments	24
Date	December 15, 2019 5:24 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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