OK, guys, a lot of you are asking "how do you open a girl" and "how do you approach during the day," etc. So I thought I would post a blow by blow account of a typical day game approach, along with commentary. The below is very typical, I would put it right at the median. About half go better, about half go worse.
I call in a takeout order at a Chinese place for lunch. I go in, and as I'm paying for it, I see an HB8 girl sitting by herself at a table near the register. She looks a bit like Megan Fox but with a chubbier face and without the green eyes. I would give the face 7.5 but she's clearly tall (it turns out she's about 5'9") so that's extra half point.
I turn immediately (3 sec rule, don't hesitate. She saw you checking her out, you have to approach right away or she will think you're weak) and say,
"hey, is that regular coconut water, or flavored?" (see, opening line doesn't matter. approach then calibrate).
She says, "it's regular, I didn't even know there was flavored water." (she didn't stop after answering the question, she adds a comment, that's not a bad sign)
"Oh, I was going to steal it from you if it was flavored, but luckily you're safe" (a bit of a weak line, but it demonstrates you're not afraid joke around, and that you're relaxed.)
She smiles.
"You look like you work at the hospital." I say. (There is a hospital across the street, and she's dressed kind of professionally)
She says, "No. But I work nearby. I'm a chiropractor. I just joined the practice recently." (OK, now that's good sign, because 1) she is going beyond just answering the question, she's elaborating. That's a sign she wants to keep talking and 2) she's telling me about herself.)
The food arrives. I grab it and ask, "hey, you mind if I join you?" (I knew she would likely say yes, given that she was giving me multisentence answers)
"Yeah, but I have to go back to work in ten minutes. It was really crowded here before so it took me a long time to get food."
I sit down, and cold read again "you look like you grew up around here."
She: "yes, I grew up in XX"
Me: "hm, that's too bad, but I won't hold it against you." with a smile. (slight neg/teasing)
She laughs. We banter a bit, then she says, "so tell me about you, where did you grow up?" (this is a hard hook. She's displaying interest when she asks about you.)
I tell her. More talking, during which I'm push pulling, like when she says she had to work hard during chiropractice school, I say "yeah, I knew you were a nerd when I first saw you... but I like nerds."
Also, she's soft spoken, so I make her repeat herself (as opposed to leaning in) and she starts talking more loudly. (she's falling into my frame)
Later she asks, "so what do you do?" I make her guess, then tell her. (this is a very hard hook especially for a late 20s girl)
She has to leave, so I tell her, "here, give me your number, and I'll call you, we can grab dinner sometime." I hand her my phone.
She: "Well, I want to tell you... I'm attached..." (hm, something's odd, she was giving me a lot of positive signals, smiling, laughing, leaning in....)
She: "But he's not on my Instagram... Though he's in my stories... OK, I'm going to give you my number. I just wanted to tell you." (ah ha, as I thought. She was giving a lot IOIs, I wasn't wrong. I can see her mind zig zagging trying to justify her giving me her number.)
I smile and nod.
She enters her info, stands up (that's when I realize she's 5'9", and she's got a killer body, and I upgrade her to 8.5). I tell her, "go crack some bones" and she smiles.
I would have tried to pull her but obviously logistics got in the way. She had to go back to work.
Normally, in a case like this I would give it 15% -20% chance I could get her to come out. But given that she gave me her number despite having a BF bumps it up to maybe 25% chance.
There are 3 possible outcomes. 1) Most likely, she's going to snap back to her senses and ghost me (65% chance). 2) She might cheat on her BF (10% chance) but that is not likely after a 10 minute interaction unless it's an immediate pull. 3) The fact that she gave me her number suggests her relationship may not be going too well.
I don't like to break things up, so I'll text her in a few weeks. Often, (up to 25% of the time) when girls in relationships are willing to give me their number while disclosing that fact to me, I find out that the relationship was on the rocks and they're single few weeks later.
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