I am 21yo and 'I've just moved to a small town (left daddy and mommy's to make my own life) where I know NOBODY. But on this website 'couchsurfing.org', this girl J accepted to host me at her house (25yo 7.5/10, more if you take my tastes in consideration).
When I got to the place, quickly got friends with her parents (which live at the same house) and took over the place (while she was at work). Dad is Ned Flanders, Mom is a control freak, but respects me for now. When J comes home I managed to show a cocky player personality.I cooked for them and made her help me in the process. There is obvious sexual tension. Then she invited me to do lots of stuff on the city and etc( on a gentle and shy way), as it's usual to do when a foreigner is at your home. During those activities I tried to escalate, but she doesn't respond well (there was a famous goodlooking guy making a presentation and she comments that someone tried to hook her up with him, I say 'let's make him jealous then' and hold her hand. She says a slow nooo...no then separates hands)
What is going on here? Some suppositions: -She perceives me as a loser and I misread the situation. -She is attracted to me, but is playing hard. -She is attracted to me, but feels bad being attracted to a 'cocky player', as she probably admires her beta dad.
I honestly think option 3 is more likely. Hope I'm not delusional. What to do now ? Best option I thought of so far is to run Dread Game and do things without her to make her chase (or just abandon ship if it's too hard of a spot for a 7,5. I'll appreciate better ideas or analysis from you, Alpha Gods.
extra info: -I'll be staying ~20days with them, as I don't have money for a hotel and the apartment I'll be renting needs to be finished and painted -I really want to fuck J, but won't go LTR or something like that (which is what she probably wants). If I need to go BB to get to her heart, I'll abandon ship, as there are plenty of good looking girls here. (with who I have also talked to and gotten numbers)
All of this happened in 48 hours so yea I'm awesome