Super tough spot

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May 12, 2015
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I am 21yo and 'I've just moved to a small town (left daddy and mommy's to make my own life) where I know NOBODY. But on this website 'couchsurfing.org', this girl J accepted to host me at her house (25yo 7.5/10, more if you take my tastes in consideration).

When I got to the place, quickly got friends with her parents (which live at the same house) and took over the place (while she was at work). Dad is Ned Flanders, Mom is a control freak, but respects me for now. When J comes home I managed to show a cocky player personality.I cooked for them and made her help me in the process. There is obvious sexual tension. Then she invited me to do lots of stuff on the city and etc( on a gentle and shy way), as it's usual to do when a foreigner is at your home. During those activities I tried to escalate, but she doesn't respond well (there was a famous goodlooking guy making a presentation and she comments that someone tried to hook her up with him, I say 'let's make him jealous then' and hold her hand. She says a slow nooo...no then separates hands)

What is going on here? Some suppositions: -She perceives me as a loser and I misread the situation. -She is attracted to me, but is playing hard. -She is attracted to me, but feels bad being attracted to a 'cocky player', as she probably admires her beta dad.

I honestly think option 3 is more likely. Hope I'm not delusional. What to do now ? Best option I thought of so far is to run Dread Game and do things without her to make her chase (or just abandon ship if it's too hard of a spot for a 7,5. I'll appreciate better ideas or analysis from you, Alpha Gods.

extra info: -I'll be staying ~20days with them, as I don't have money for a hotel and the apartment I'll be renting needs to be finished and painted -I really want to fuck J, but won't go LTR or something like that (which is what she probably wants). If I need to go BB to get to her heart, I'll abandon ship, as there are plenty of good looking girls here. (with who I have also talked to and gotten numbers)

All of this happened in 48 hours so yea I'm awesome


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Title Super tough spot
Author RICCIedm
Upvotes 0
Comments 9
Date 12 May 2015 04:15 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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[–]Endorsed Contributorfnordsnord3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

You escalated and got a no.

Find other things to do and avoid her company for at least 3 days. When you DO see her, limit your interaction to a small smile and a "hey."

You are going off as too eager, and I'm not seeing any interest at all on her part.

And chase other girls. Ideally, bring one home.

[–]RICCIedm[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Thank you sir. Will follow.

[–]Endorsed Contributorfnordsnord1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're going to be there 20 days. After no more than 6 days, you can attempt to re-engage, but I think you've sunk this one.

[–]FrameWalker1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Good work. You got your answer, on to the next. She could be trying to avoid shitting where her family eats. There would be major ASD for any girl to get with a random boarder with her parents at home.

[–]RICCIedm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

But someone with good enough game could definitelly get the hamster spinning weheh. Yea seems I'm putting too much effort into this.

[–]kingofpoplives1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

there are plenty of good looking girls here.

Go after some of those other girls. Maybe things will improve with this one after you are out of her parental home, but as things stand now that entire situation is something you should avoid.

[–]RICCIedm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I am hitting on all girls since I arrived. But yea, you are right, I should avoid this situation. Thanks!

[–]karmasutur3 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

You escalated by grabbing a hand, and she immediately said no.

I don't think you're doing well with this particular girl.

so yea I'm awesome

Superbia eunt pro a cado

[–]RICCIedm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I am awesome because I'm out there doing shit. If I thought i was the AMOG of the earth I wouldn't be here asking for advice on how to bed a 7.5. No problem if I fall : I'll get up and try again with one of the other 3billion chicks, mr Latin. If your comment helped on something it was on teaching me a fancy phrase.



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