I see a lot of guys having success here but not a ton of tips for females.

ItsHobbesnotTyrone · 2020-03-28T04:23:12+00:00

All the same advice that exists on this sub basically are the same for you. Be direct. De open. Tell them what you want. Either approach or don’t. Men are more likely to approach you cause you’re a woman. You’ll still find men that aren’t up to your standards that will approach you that’s just how it goes. Keep value in yourself and you’ll find that people of value will find you, especially if you’re as our going as you say

noobmaster1991 · 2020-03-28T10:40:58+00:00

For women is a bit different because they don't pursue. But I've noticed that most women don't understand the dynamic of attracting men. What you can do as a women is set up the interaction and then letting him think he picked you instead you picking him. Many women have lost the art of seduction because feminists discouraged women being feminine and using soft power and to rely on masculine power.

Lock eyes with a men you fancy and smile. This tells a men that you are available to talk to him.
Compliment a men on his wardrobe or hair ect. ect. You'd be surprised! man don't really get compliments especially from women. (Also don't be afraid to touch him, be feminine) Play with your hair, look at his lips, lick your lips (subtle)
This is a debatable one but it might work. Ask someone that you fancy if he can look after your chair while you go to the bathroom and search for your friend. Of course this might also work with a beer, wine, coat, ect. But nowadays, people can spike your drink or steal something from you. So a simple gesture like looking after your chair can work! This sets up the interaction between the person that you're interested and sets up the opportunity to build rapport!
Go to hobbies that you are interested! For example local concerts.

Also let men know what's your intentions upfront. Tell them the truth that you are not into one night stands. They will respect you, if you're upfront. also don't be a immature girl that ghosts men.

From my experience is definitely easier for women since, let's be real men are wired to like a women's body. We are visual creatures. But also don't have the personality of a paper brown bag.

smoothmax · 2020-03-28T21:14:50+00:00

AFAIK not much realistic, actionable advice or teaching is out there that is specifically aimed at women.

I think that the best thing a woman can do is read books on dating and pickup that are aimed at men. Believe it or not, most of these books don't teach men to be creepy or manipulative. Most of them teach guys how to be more attractive inside and out. They emphasize things like fitness, grooming and clothes. Improving your self esteem. Getting better posture and learning how to be polite and sociable. Be a good listener and good at conversation. Getting your life in order with respect to money, health, eating and drinking. And how to be good in bed.

Some of the advice for men won't be applicable to you. But the cool thing is, you will learn how to instantly spot men who ARE cool, have their act together, and who are good with women. You will spot the difference between try-hards and needy, desperate men, and men who are relaxed and confident.

A guy who is good at "game" will look and act cool. He'll be funny and a good listener. He'll get along with your friends. He'll handle your moods without drama. He won't be insecure about your male friends and ex's.

If you read those books you'll find it easier to weed out the guys who know nothing about women ... because it'll be obvious that THEY haven't read those books.

Search this reddit for book recommendations if you want to follow up on this, or DM me if you want my personal recommendations.

PrsnPersuasion · 2020-03-28T18:23:15+00:00

Step 1 - download tinder

Step 2 - get hundreds of matches

What else is there to know? Seriously?

dildoszwagins · 2020-03-28T08:02:47+00:00

Well, I have never been aprouched by a girl yet but I can tell you one tip. If Girls stare at me in the eyes I know she will be interested when I talk to her. Thats my tip: if you want to be approached look directly in the eyes and maintain eye contact.

excentrik-art · 2020-03-30T08:18:14+00:00

Walking wet dream of a sweet shy introverted sad person. That does not really makes sense.

If you want to be desireable, you have to work on your inner state of mind. Stay shy and introverted, no problem. But be happy. Don't look for your happiness in other people, search for your happines in yourself, learn to induce it in yourself.

When you distill it, most of it comes down to confidence. Because desirability you must first feel in yourself, believe it in yourself, before others will start feel it about you.

Sexy provocative clothes will not work if you will feel uncomfortable. But regular clothes will work if you will feel like you already are walking wet dream.

BlazePlayz · 2020-03-28T03:55:02+00:00

This sub is for picking up girls. For info on how to pickup guys, try r/FemaleDatingStrategy

BetrayedUchiha · 2020-03-28T06:40:45+00:00

I love when girls are introverted and very curious. You sound great. Just be you and if you like a guy give him hints or just be direct :)

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