This is a question about phone game specifically (since it’s corona time).

I’m speaking with someone I’ve already slept with, but I’m trying to drive the relationship a little more forward, and mainly getting her to chase rather than the other way around.

Things I’ve done that are not helpful: I keep talking about myself to demonstrate value. I keep giving her praise for small things. I keep qualifying myself. I’m even saying shit like “can’t wait to see you when this is over” but often.

I understand that’s terrible game and I need to stop all that ASAP.

Things I need to do: get her to qualify herself. Get her emotionally hooked and invested.

But how specifically? We’re a little past the “I wasn’t sure about you but you may be cool” phase. We’ve been talking for a couple months and get deep about some topics. How do I all of a sudden get her to qualify? Any specific lines/techniques/questions/strategies etc.?

I just wanna run good game and balance out the interaction a little more. She’s definitely interested in me, we talk daily, but I need to get her as invested as I am. Thanks.