What do you say to a girl when she’ll let you do everything except sex

sixfeetunder98 · 2020-06-29T17:18:16+00:00

Sounds like you’re doing exactly what you should be and dating some decent women. Congrats.

mvdb99 · 2020-06-29T18:37:24+00:00

Pull the card before she can, get her to chase

PiperBigBell · 2020-06-29T21:23:39+00:00

Few things here. When closing a girl, you want her more turned on than you are. You want her more hot and bothered than you. This helps because one, they'll be less likely to brake last minute since it was there idea, and two, because women love a dominant, superior man, it makes you look high value. I have many methods of achieving this buyer-seller dynamic. But some basic, less advanced but equally effective ways of getting this across, getting her to chase are:

Always be the one to pull back first physically. ALWAYS. No matter how hard, turned on you are. This will leave her, not you, frustrated. And it will highlight in her mind how turned on she is compared to you. When you take away pleasure, humans tend to double down and want twice as much as a sort of need mental security and abundance.
Control the narrative. You tell her things like, "Do you mind if we don't have sex?" Or, "I'm trying to move slower because I'm tired of getting used for dick." This will highlight that sexual activity of all kinds is her idea. By the way you phrase these things, she'll assume you're the one with the power to say yes or no (buyer), not the one who needs a sale (seller)
Extreme push pull. This goes into number one. Abuse her emotionally. Give hard pulls, affection, touching, etc, then go totally cold. The push. Taking away your attention, time, affection, good vibes. Become emotional crack. The higher the highs feel. The more devastating the lows feels. And the lower the lows, the more any kind of high feels like heaven. Making her crave that next fix.
Give her head and finger her while dirty talking. If you eat her out really good and are good at dirty talking. You can easily get her to fantasize about you inside her. Sooner or later while you're eating her out, she'll beg you to fuck her (easy transition because her pants and underwear are already off).
Let her know through crazy stories that you are absolutely non judgemental. If you can communicate through fun, relevant stories that you're used to having crazy sex and you love girls with high body counts, that you love when girls are free and it makes you want them more, they'll drop the guard. Girls are dieing to let go and be free. Give her that space.

Hope this helps.

iggly1999 · 2020-06-29T17:56:58+00:00

What is prompting them to say this on the first night? lol

Sultmaker_9000 · 2020-06-29T18:11:57+00:00

Lol never begging.

When you say everything but sex, you're including oral?

Assuming you are, that's very odd, if its happening all the time. Just bad luck, since it over ever happened to me once.

TheGuitto · 2020-06-29T21:12:44+00:00

A girl isn't going to sleep with you on the first date unless she has a very high attraction. She does not want you to think she is easy.

You are more likely to have sex on the 2nd or 3rd date

quinnmcd · 2020-06-29T23:37:29+00:00

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Title	What do you say to a girl when she’ll let you do everything except sex
Author	Internet_is_a_tool
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Comments	22
Date	June 29, 2020 5:08 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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