Inconsistency; She makes you wait for sex - RPW, or BP man?

imgonnabethegreatest · 2015-06-07T21:27:10+00:00

The amount of red flags. Is she fucking every other dude in the McDonald's bathroom but she won't have sex with you? She sees you as a lesser man.

Is she known for being a cool girl but doesn't put out to just anybody? She knows what her value is and doesn't give it away to just anybody.

The only time you should ever accept waiting for sex(3 dates max, normally) is if you know that she's a high value woman that doesn't have a high number and you're looking for a ltr.

TruckerJohn · 2015-06-07T21:46:09+00:00

Doesn't matter. If you're not getting what you want then move on.

Thethrowawayoption · 2015-06-08T12:49:33+00:00

These things are not mutually exclusive. I'd say that when sex happens is half or mostly a function of her excitement level and your relative SMV, but there are oceans of distance between a guy who's been learning TRP, lifting and practicing seduction regularly for a couple of years--who is very skilled compared to a complete BP--and the top tier Chads out there who were born with all of it.

There are any number of reasons girls make guys wait (including the RPW advice you saw), but that doesn't mean she can't break her own rules if she really wants to. The benefit of finding a RPW is not that she's an exception to AWALT; it's that she is less delusional about how the game works.

It's not really worth worrying about this OR the many exceptions. Do your best. Reflect on what you could do better afterwards. That's it.

TL;DR You aren't going to be able to tell if you're with a RPW just by whether she genuinely wants you to wait x dates. Don't base too much of your self evaluation on it either. Your job is to improve, not to worry.

masterrod · 2015-06-08T05:08:57+00:00

You're the person that must decide.

For me, I only date people I like to chill with, so I don't mind playing a little cat and mouse for a reasonable time period. But if I stop being able to escalate, then I simply make a decision.

Some girls don't want to be plated, it's just how it is. You have to be strong enough to drop those ladies, if your intention is to plate her. Not doing so will get your tires slashed.

rebuildingMyself · 2015-06-08T07:22:27+00:00

Is she doing other things for you to show that's she's worth waiting for (cook a meal for you, etc)? If she just show up to the date, racks up a bill and looks to you to pay it, then she's using you

juanqunt · 2015-06-08T07:24:53+00:00

Always sex the girl early on. Even if she's a RPW, she will know early on if you're a high value RP man. She knows that she must give a high value man sex early, or he will bang other women.

I'm actually in that situation right now... I told the RPW straight up that I'm always advancing forwards and needs lots of sex, but she knows that I'll be moving away in a few weeks and never will see her again. Yet she's still thirsty as fuck and sending me nasty shit despite me now having dates with 5 other girls this week.

donit · 2015-06-08T16:25:27+00:00

First, you need to determine if she is just putting in a token delay, or if she really has deep beliefs about it.

If it's the latter, and you're locked in on her as a target, you're just going to have to come up with things to do with her and ways to entertain yourself while you run out the clock on getting to know her. She wants to see if you're able to enjoy each other without sex, since she knows that any guy would enjoy spending time with her, if it was just to have sex with her.

But if you want her to hurry up, I would cut off all kino, and then let it be a tease, make her crave to get it back. And when she asks, just say well, I don't want to start anything you're not ready to experience.

Just stare at her and let her smoulder and build up the pressure on the inside.

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Title	Inconsistency; She makes you wait for sex - RPW, or BP man?
Author	whatyearisthisagain
Upvotes	20
Comments	18
Date	June 7, 2015 8:55 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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