Texting only for logistics doesn't seems to work

VloneClown · 2020-07-05T19:45:58+00:00

Imo this only applies to when you get older. You both have lives and careers, so it makes sense to only be able to text for logistics. Everyone our age has relatively minimal responsibilities. So girls know that we have the ability to be in contact with them. But are choosing not to. I’m 18, and there’s only been 1 girl I was able to meet up with, by only texting about logistics. Every single other girl I’ve had sex with, or had a relationship with. I’ve facetimed them for atleast 30+ minutes, and texted with them throughout the day. All before the first time I met up with them. And it’s never set me back.

hunterpua · 2020-07-05T11:13:12+00:00

I've been learning, practicing, experimenting and teaching seduction for more than 10 years now and I have to tell you, there is a way where you can make texting only for logistics work but it shouldn't be a hard and fast rule that you absolutely have to adhere to.

The way you make it work is really simple, nail down plans right then and there when you first meet the girl.

Everything has to be sorted, the date, the location, and the time.

If you don't have those things nailed down yet then don't leave, keep talking to her.

If no matter what you do you can't make her comfortable and attracted enough to be willing to make plans with you right then and there then don't even try to get her contact details. Just leave.

However, there are legitimate reasons for why you'd wanna use texting to get to know a girl more.

For example if you met while one of you is in a rush and you don't have time to make her feel comfortable and nail down plans when you meet.

Or if for a particular girl it just takes more time than usual to make her feel comfortable and current circumstances aren't giving you that time. This might be the case for the younger girls you're meeting.

Or if you meet on the dance floor at a party where talking a lot will really be counter-productive so it isn't the best setting to make plans to hang out.

Or if for some reason you're unable to go on a date with her in the near future because your schedule is so full so you'd have to spend a few weeks just messaging each other.

Make no mistake, if you barely write to each other for 2 weeks or more, whatever she felt for you when you met will have faded away.

So ideally, you'd make plans right when you first meet but understand that that's not always possible and sometimes you have to make adjustments.

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STD_Tyler · 2020-07-05T11:08:38+00:00

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dickstellar · 2020-07-05T11:47:05+00:00

Sometimes I like to text girls for the sake of wanting to just chat with them. I don’t see anything wrong with it.

I feel like younger girls want to text more and include that in relationship/comfort building.

It’s nice to try get them to meet you or else you’re just holding your dick in your hand, but I see nothing wrong with keeping relationships alive with just little back and fourths.

docent3434 · 2020-07-05T16:19:50+00:00

The key here is the frame. I insta saw the word "hesitate", meaning that you have not internalized logistics texting. Untill you realise why logistics are logistics, you will not be succesful. When you get the number, propose time and place, set up a date. If she flakes for some stupid reason, soft next. It was always a numbers game. You have better stuff to do then type her all day long while some alfa Chad bangs her head to the wall. I literally fucked a girl while her phone was blowing up with messages like "what is your fav colour?". He who hesitates, masturbates.

We_R_MEGA_WoQ · 2020-07-05T09:32:43+00:00

I've used texting as a way of feeling out what kind of woman she is. I use texting as a way of qualifying HER. When you do this, and obviously don't immediately text back all the time...(the key is to make her wonder what you're doing, she wants you to be busy focusing on your life & goals more than she wants attention, regardless of what she will tell you) it builds strong attraction because you're qualifying her and showing high value by not having all the time in the world to sit there and text her. This works very well for me.

flyashellll · 2020-07-05T15:06:14+00:00

I’ve been trying this out, the only text for meet up. But for me it didn’t work well, girls always thought I wasn’t really interested and lost interest too. I’m 21 btw. Maybe on older women it works better.

7Saturn7Saturn7 · 2020-07-05T16:17:58+00:00

Here's the issue, you put yourself on the level of what you'll compete with. When you text too much you become a notification on her phone screen and you get put on the same level as candy crush.

Think about it, if you showed up to a tinder date and there were ten other dudes there ready to have a dance off for the date would you do it? No, you should already have figured out that even if you win you don't win because you've proven yourself equal to the worst dude there.

By all means rev the engine now and again, keep her engaged, but I promise you results will suffer from over texting and what's worse is they'll suffer while your putting in more time. And no this isn't boomer advice, even back in the day you didn't want to chat on the phone for hours like you're her after school girlfriend.

your_nikka_2k20 · 2020-07-08T05:32:04+00:00

"Only text for logistics" is some ancient advice from the 2000s probably. You're 19 and people text each other all day everyday. Just talk to them over text but never text them more than they text you.

Rough-Tension · 2020-07-05T14:42:38+00:00

Uhhh where do you live? Bc I’m 19 and I can get arrested for messing with anyone under 18. Be careful with that my dude lol. Unless your country/state allows it in which case just ignore me.

Title	Texting only for logistics doesn't seems to work
Author	okthatsmyusername
Upvotes	8
Comments	38
Date	July 5, 2020 9:06 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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