How to tease a girl?

Dodechaedron · 2020-08-13T23:13:36+00:00

Humour, with a little bit of spice here and there.

LakersAreTerrible25 · 2020-08-14T00:21:46+00:00

Don't. If you need to do all that, then her interest is low and you're essentially voluntarily being a dancing monkey. Especially if youre 21+, youre a grown man and being goofy could cost you with a lot of women in that demographic. There's ways to seduce a woman without coming across as a try hard or corny. Let your vibe and how you carry yourself speak for itself and just get to know her like a normal adult

Mrvaan1999 · 2020-08-13T23:23:19+00:00

Don’t tease her about anything that could be taken as truely offensive I.e her weight, race, looks in general anything that you think might upset her or you for that matter are best to stay away from

Captain_w00t · 2020-08-13T23:45:45+00:00

Humour can be delivered in a wide variety of ways, you don’t need to be a clown or a standup comedian. You could say something sarcastic (toward situations, or abstract targets, NEVER to a person or yourself if you don’t want to offend). You should just look for something funny that comes into your head, and deliver it with your usual tone (better with a smile/funny sneer) for the sake of it, not to make others laugh. The first that should be laughing is you. Find the funny side of things, use paradoxes, exaggerations, crazy contrasts/comparisons. Also timing and wording are keys. A joke delivered at the right time, even better if is something linked to a previous discussion, can make wonders. Using weird metaphors/name-calling to describe something in a funnier way requires you to know a lot of terms and their exact meaning. You can even use swear words, again with the right timing and context, for example to highlight something very negatively, when closing the joke, to create emotional reactions by hearing you breaking from sophisticated language to the right swear word at the right time and context.

It comes to me very naturally since I was a kid. Nowadays I’m in the situation that many colleagues can’t distinguish when I’m serious or joking because sometimes they are both valid, so it happens that they first laugh for the joke, then reply with the serious answer about the topic.

CrazyMap3825 · 2020-08-14T04:25:49+00:00

Am I the only one who thought he meant “in bed”?

pandrewmon · 2020-08-14T04:40:25+00:00

Find a habit that you've observed they are doing and make light jokes about it. Bring it up now and then and make it a thing that you tease her about

LarkCJ3a · 2020-08-14T04:45:49+00:00

I guess my best example is with a short girl 5'4" or less. She knows she is short. I'm 6' so when we are talking about something like cars, or boxing, or her being athletic/working out. I say "What, all 4'11" of you? and I give strong eye contact with a shit eating grin. She will look up and see it and say "Hey! I'm 5'4"" and I say "maybe in heels".

This is just an example but it works with everything. When you tease her, make sure you are giving strong eye contact with a "naughty" smile. She'll love it!

Edit: Don't every say sorry and don't joke about weight. Those are the rules.

omkar-m · 2020-08-14T14:23:52+00:00

Don’t focus on teasing instead learn to give her emotional roller coaster.

iaskquestions011 · 2020-08-14T23:51:26+00:00

Make fun of one of her innocent flaw.

"oh you've got huge cheek bones I'm sure you're Chinese inside"

Title	How to tease a girl?
Author	Pleasebuymetacos
Upvotes	5
Comments	13
Date	August 13, 2020 9:38 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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