Fellow men have some self-respect please

norwegiandoggo · 2020-08-18T05:55:21+00:00

You describe a big issue for many indeed. That they think any situation can be turned around. It doesn't matter how uninterested the girl seems. They think my using some magical seduction tricks they can flip the situation. Or they will think it's just a "shit test" and she's actually interested further deluding themselves. Being good at game is largely about picking the right girls, and moving on quickly from the wrong girls as soon as you realize it's not going anywhere.

sticky-lincoln · 2020-08-18T08:38:05+00:00

A shorter way to say this: nobody is gonna love yourself for you.

People give themselves up like a salesman selling encyclopedias door to door. Touting the features it allegedly has. It stinks of “nobody wants this and neither do I”. You lie and lie until you can bring the salesperson to the door, and then you fake not being at home.

Think of infomercials. Why would they need to sell it this way, if it was good? Why wouldn’t they just put it on the shelves, and let people buy it? It could be a good product, but presenting it this way is enough not to give it any chance.

Instead, just be an amazing person, and don’t sell yourself. Let others wonder if it’s possible to buy and how.

Edit: I’ll add a few more words.

Think of a person that you know, who you find boring, unattractive, even repulsive. Now, imagine them desperately trying to convince you to like them. No matter how desperate you yourself are. You will only find this person more and more repulsive. That’s just how it is.

Looking for love is just about the fastest way to find hate. Instead, be in a tight, passionate relationship with yourself. Then, people will be desperate to make you “cheat” on yourself ;)

relentless_pma · 2020-08-18T10:02:35+00:00

I think it is good if you have the strength to walk away. It will help in the abundence mindset and your self esteem.

Cool that the girl reached out to you again. Altough it makes your entire post a bit less powerfull. Because lets be honest here I think when you walk away most of the times the contact will end there and she will not reach out to you again. And thats fine, because you walked away and will focus on other girls.

Jarin01 · 2020-08-18T18:37:00+00:00

It's the fact that most men will put up with bad behavior from women or simp even for ugly women is why the dating market is such shit right now. You get the behavior you reward and as long as guys continue to throw themselves at the feet of shallow overweight women that is going to be what will be available.

JetPillar · 2020-08-18T05:34:13+00:00

Lol for not giving a damn or thinking about her again you sure just made an entire post about her.

sunflowerprairie · 2020-08-18T05:40:07+00:00

That's one way to go about it. Or you could roast her in such a way she could never shit test you again. Not insult her but tease her in such a way that puts the audacity of her shit test back on her. It's easier with women you don't really care about. Tone and delivery is everything here. You maintain social proof that way too

Title	Fellow men have some self-respect please
Author	drevenx13
Upvotes	82
Comments	20
Date	August 18, 2020 3:20 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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