Why cant all men admire a sex addict?

cottagecorehoe · 2020-09-08T15:43:45+00:00

This is a very confusing post, but just want to say that men also don't only care about sex. Granted it's important, but they also often want to have a connection beyond that. People sometimes forget that men are more than just sex-machines and have emotions beyond that, too.

If you're actually a sex addict and it's getting in the way of your life, then you need to seek help for that.

If you're not a sex addict and just have a higher sex drive, then you need to find someone who matches your sex drive because sexual compatibility is important. Also, unless you have specifically talked about solely having a sexual relationship and that's it, then sex should not be the focus/only activity you guys engage in.

I too have a very high sex drive and can go multiple times a day if wanted, but I also recognize that my relationship with a guy should be more than just sex and if everything revolves around sex, then over time he may solely feel like a sex object (which does happen to guys!!) or like the rest of the relationship is lacking attention. It's important to have someone who is sexually compatible, but also it is important to ensure you're on the same page about the type of relationship you're having with the person (purely sexual, romantic, fwb, etc).

2020-09-08T16:27:28+00:00

Maybe they don’t like your personality? Great sex is important but if I don’t like hanging out with the girl i’ll get bored of it after a while.

wtfzambo · 2020-09-08T16:44:35+00:00

I believe most of it is due to gender stereotypes: "Men must be sex beasts, get their dick erect on command and give woman squirting multiple orgasms in any situation".

So when faced with a sex addict, the fear of not being able to keep up and keep you satisfied can become overwhelming and make them disconnect.

Don't control yourself, don't change who you are. Find compatible people. I have a friend who's just like you, and she keeps her drive satisfied by either tons of casual sex or finding sex addict partners as well.

If you live in Italy I have a friend you should meet, he's a sex addict and would have no problem with your hunger.

norwegiandoggo · 2020-09-08T17:13:53+00:00

Why can't all men admire a sex addict? Because men are different from each other 🤷

kettlebell_workout · 2020-09-08T15:39:17+00:00

Cause it makes them feel like they can't satisfy you.

You make them feel less as a man.

appmanga · 2020-09-08T17:08:26+00:00

Do you want to have sex every day? That can be a tough pace to maintain, and it can be difficult to find that kind of sexual compatibility. It can be like having ice cream every day: it stops being a treat and becomes a routine.

mydeardroogs · 2020-09-08T17:54:02+00:00

All the men I have been with fizzle out because of disconnection and inability to keep up, so maybe I need to control myself?

How honest are we being with ourselves? Are you sure there isn't something else? Something that doesn't necessarily have to do with the sex?

2020-09-09T11:44:03+00:00

Shot in the dark here, but what is your level of empathy in general for the people around you? Do you have trouble making friends or keeping friends?

Title	Why cant all men admire a sex addict?
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Date	September 8, 2020 3:34 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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