I occasionally get a girl’s number butI often end up being ghosted. Advice?

Eircans · 2020-09-21T05:42:44+00:00

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nikgos · 2020-09-21T08:45:10+00:00

Something that I figured out a while ago is that getting a number/Instagram is just a technicality. The goal of an interaction is not to get her number but to see if you click with a girl. If you focus on that and you get better at it you'll soon start to see the number as something that just happens naturally as a result of an enjoyable interaction not the end goal. Hell at the end of an enjoyable interaction a girl might ask you "do you want my number?".

My advice: don't focus that much on the number, focus more on making the interaction better and enjoyable and then not only will the number come naturally but it will also increase your chances of a girl responding and that is what ultimately matters not that you got the number.

Also someone suggested to give a girl your number but I don't think that this is a good advice. A lot of girls are kinda 50/50 whether they wanna go out with you or not and unless they are HELL YEAH which doesn't happen that often they will not text you. If you've made a good impression though and you got her to a 50/50 and then your text game is on point then you are going to start tipping the scale in your favour. But if you expect her to text you most of the time you'll not get the chance to turn the maybe into a yes.

shanuv12 · 2020-09-21T06:22:08+00:00

Do not give a fuck

greatlifeahead · 2020-09-21T06:39:37+00:00

It can be that you pressure her to give you her number. Also maybe there isn't enough comfort and attraction. Try to seed something fun and cool to do together. She has to feel excited about you.

2020-09-21T08:53:48+00:00

Sort them out by giving numbers instead of taking them. If they don't text you within 24h you can forget them instead of thinking about them for days because they're not replying.
You always need to take care of your mental health first.

I personally would never call them and if they ghost you via text take this advice.

Eircans · 2020-09-21T09:10:30+00:00

Thank you for this question. This happens to me a lot.

ImmodestPolitician · 2020-09-21T12:09:54+00:00

Describe the date you want to take her on, then get the number.

A lot of women give numbers as a blow off.

sixfeetunder98 · 2020-09-22T05:43:33+00:00

Your initial texts are not interesting enough. When you send it is far less important than making it quirky or funny or interesting. Focus on this above all else.

reversedbydark · 2020-09-21T09:23:00+00:00

Never text or call later that day or ask them out the same week on friday or the weekend, gives of a needy vibe.

Wait 1-2 days to text & be on point as you possibly can: "So, you free monday night to grab dinner?"

Also, 1st dates always on monday or tuesday & always dinner. Wear a shirt, some nice shoes (oxfords, brogues) & a nice cologne.

This should do for starters.

2020-09-21T05:49:45+00:00

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neisbsudnei9191 · 2020-09-21T13:17:13+00:00

No she gave you the number to get you to leave her alone.......

Title	I occasionally get a girl’s number butI often end up being ghosted. Advice?
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Upvotes	19
Comments	26
Date	September 21, 2020 5:25 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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