I always struggle in trying to keep the will to approach and meet people. Not because social anxiety rather than for me, as introvert, getting to know people gets tiring and boring. Time ago I tried to keep a highly active social live going to any social event I could get my hands of, I managed to get a couple of dates but those let to nothing and that lack of results eventually got me super tired and even I still went to social events I didn't want to talk to anyone. It felt like a meaningless chore.

Fast forward to present day and I actually put myself in better shape and I wanna try again but am affraid that I'll fall into the same mistake. Is there a way to avoid this kinda burnout?

The general response I get from the community is the "Just approach" and this is not gonna work because without some kinda progression it feels meaningless and just contributes to me stop approaching or doing it poorly. Any tips?