When women test you, they are providing you with an opportunity for you to prove yourself

Umbran_scale · 2020-10-16T17:01:32+00:00

You know I really hope this sub isn't indicative of what dating is actually like because holy shit none of this looks fun in the slightest...

KingCeddy24 · 2020-10-16T14:08:47+00:00

I’m not into overthinking and overanalysing situations. I’d rather move on to the next as quickly as possible if I don’t get a good vibe from her. If she flakes randomly, I’m not chasing.

Sometimes they come back when I behave this way.

Overthinking about women drains too much energy and puts unnecessary stress / performance anxiety on your shoulders, IMO.

primallyours · 2020-10-16T16:50:38+00:00

[colin powell gif] Tf?!

Way too much head shit here, man. If it works for you great but Jesus Christ. Lol

If there is a formula it’s way simpler than that. Trial, error and fine tuning. Rinse and repeat to taste/success.

DenverPUA · 2020-10-17T03:00:20+00:00

I was going out with this woman. We would go out and have a lot of fun. Then, I would text her, it would take her 2-3 days to respond. I know she was playing some fucking game to see how I would react. At the same time, it was obvious that she was scared of getting involved I finally told her straight up, "If you are scared of opening up and being vulnerable, I don't have time to waste"- Obviously, no comeback after that. You need to be able to gauge this kind of shit and if you feel like it aint worth it, cut it short. A lot of these women need fucking therapy and you ain't going to be Captain Save-a-Ho and save them from themselves. Move the fuck on!

lovatoariana · 2020-10-16T17:16:17+00:00

I aint got shit to prove to no bitch. If you like what you see, good. If you dont, theres many others that do

KonradPOGGERS · 2020-10-16T17:11:47+00:00

Mods, pin this

JeanMeti_ore · 2020-10-16T13:47:41+00:00

Thank you brosky 💪🏻 This is invaluable information right here 100%

Lenorma · 2020-10-16T15:20:57+00:00

You can’t beat woman’s irrational intuition with your overthinking and overplanning 😁 Most women will intuitively understand the main things about you after the first few glances. She will get an intuitive feeling if she wants you or not. Only inexperienced girls have to test you verbally and these tests give nothing, as really women test men on their actions towards them not on their words. What can be more sexy than a man who isn’t afraid to show his sensitivity? All these preaching about being overconfident just will make you look cocky and stupid. Don’t make your life too complicated with this bs.

s_k9 · 2020-10-16T21:47:31+00:00

I agree 100% with this. The shit tests are real. I've been thinking as to why a woman would do this to a man? I've come up with a couple of reasons:

To see if he's still the MAN she first fell in love with OR if they are in the early stages of dating, to see if he IS THE man.
The great Patrice O'Neal suggested this one in the "boat and fish analogy", where you are a sport fisherman and she is the fish. You have used your skills (charm, humor, great personality... etc) to catch her. Now, if you go out and catch other fish (what a man's nature is, to go after many different women, as we are never satisfied with one), that will not be good for her, as women search for security in a relationship and you finding other women/fish can ruin that for her. So she uses "tests" or "manipulation tactics", to make you UNSEXY to other women, i.e taking away your boat, your bait and your fishing rod, so you can't go out and catch other fish. I could see this point being true from an evolutionary perspective also, as it's best for the female if the male is completely committed to her in terms of resources and protection for her and the offspring.

MORAL OF THE STORY? DON'T LET HER TAKE YOUR BOAT FELLAS!

tibles20 · 2020-10-16T17:49:57+00:00

A chance to not ruin your marriage

Godisgoodkj142 · 2020-10-17T02:52:36+00:00

When women test you, they're providing an opportunity for you to bail

2020-10-17T03:01:00+00:00

Solid

Shortblaq_rod · 2020-10-17T08:17:39+00:00

Did you just hear the word congruent/ce? Damn

Railionn · 2020-10-17T14:38:09+00:00

Remember that these tests don't necessarily have to be done by her as a true test. They can be done subconsciously by her. If you then fail it might still trigger something inside her that could put you in a bad light.

manc4life · 2020-10-29T03:29:22+00:00

Quality post.

Title	When women test you, they are providing you with an opportunity for you to prove yourself
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	92
Comments	20
Date	October 16, 2020 11:57 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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