Just for reference, I'm not an unattractive dude, but I'm also I'm below average height, and have trouble attracting women sometimes because of it. For some context, I've slept with 16 girls now, 2 of which were taller than me, most I met through Tinder or social circle.

Biggest note: I spent 30 minutes doing a practice approach over FaceTime with my close female friend. It helped build my mindset a lot from the getgo, and didn't feel any anxiety when I actually did my approach.

This is my second day game pull. Girl was fairly cute, my type physically but a pretty introverted person. Regardless, she was sitting alone, listening to music on her phone at like 6pm (sun had set) in a public university park when I approached her. I opened with a smile and a confident "Hey I was just walking around and saw that you had a nice mellow vibe to you and decided to come say hi". My frame was basically "I'm a high value guy, I'm just bringing positive vibes to everyone around me, and I'm looking to meet people and adventure before I leave in 2 weeks". My tonality was strong, and so was my overall charisma. I recognize looking back that I didn't feel a shred of anxiety during the interaction, because I've been building my inner game.

I teased her pretty lightly, didn't show much intent because I wanted to keep it practical, but mostly just kept the conversation going back to myself, about how I was new to the area (I travel a lot for work) and all the restaurants I've tried, places I've explored.

I saw her checking her phone about 20 minutes in, and figured she must be getting bored and didn't know how to leave the conversation. Regardless, I asked for her phone number and she delivered. I texted her same night about something we'd discussed, she responded positively, texted her the next day asking her out for the following day and she was very down. Date was pretty damn long, took about 6 hours before getting back to my place, but had a great time.

Reflections: not going to take too much credit for getting with her because she has very few friends and in general is a deeply introverted person, doesn't expose herself to much abundance, so I didn't deal with many shit tests at all, but I now know my last pull wasn't a one off, and now have confirmation that this shit is actually possible.

Also, I'm a big believer that each person has their own method of game that works for them. Nothing is objective in game. That being said, my style is generally just being energetic but grounded, talkative while being socially calibrated, interested in them but not as much as my interest in our conversation, and in general just giving off high value energy. Didn't need to show much intent/premise, just value and positivity, exact same vibe that got me my first pull.