For the love of god, how do you make a move on the dance floor

dave_spontani · 2021-02-04T09:41:30+00:00

Opinion here:

Teach yourself the basics of bachata or Kizomba. Take a few workshops or even watch some youtube videos to get the basic step right. Modern party music usually is fucking boring(personal opinion as a dancer) but allows you to dance bachata/kizomba to the beat easily. Then just simply hit it off with someone, ask them "Do you know how to dance bachata?" ---> Yes or no, you get them to the dance floor in closed dancing position.

Common dancing etiquette: Dancing is a tease, so don't escalate physical contact too much. Use it as a climbing ladder to take her outside or somewhere private later on.

Bonus points: Dancing itself is amazingly fun. Go wild

pua_max · 2021-02-04T08:25:41+00:00

Eye contact, walk up, dance?, put out hand, dance while holding her hand, pull her in, ???, profit

ld20r · 2021-02-04T11:27:04+00:00

You just answered the question. You need to escalate if the feeling is good and she is giving you signs. Don’t dance with her all night and not make a move otherwise she’ll get bored or doubt your interest.

Talk to her every now and then and let her know you like her. And if you really want to get to know her move her off the dance floor. “Hey it’s really loud in here and I can’t hear you very well, want to move somewhere quieter?” If she accepts you’re in and if not you can kindly move along, she’ll clearly make her intentions known to you if you make yours known to her.

And if you do end up making out, let her know you enjoyed her company and that you would like to meet again if the feelings are mutual and exchange contacts. If the feelings are not mutual , politefully compliment and move on.

At the end of the day you won’t know unless you try. And regardless of the result it’s still progress and beats the person slapping his meat off at home.

ebmnm · 2021-02-04T14:08:43+00:00

One key is girls dont care if your a good dancer they only care if your having fun and being carefree

STD_Tyler · 2021-02-04T17:05:48+00:00

You don't have to dance if you don't feel to. You can start by approaching her, giving her a hi 5 or fist pump, then talk loudly to her. Things like "You have cool dance moves", "I like your dress"...etc,

Going to dance when you don't want to, to please or follow her lead is a very bad frame to start with. You are supposed to be alpha mofo who doesn't give a fukk about things you don't like..

seargentdan · 2021-02-05T16:54:59+00:00

Do you "White Man Overbite" when dancing? This could be your problem.

domsolanke · 2021-02-04T11:45:06+00:00

Simple: Don’t. Play to your strengths instead. I never cared for dancing myself, and never had a problem escalating with girls at clubs, bars etc. simply because I played to my strengths.

terax_cil · 2021-02-04T10:02:50+00:00

Sometimes i wait for more romantic songs in a way. Then i start slow dancing with her because it's easier to mantain body contact and physically escalate. A hand on the hips then go for a butt grab.

Paltenburg · 2021-02-04T12:43:49+00:00

Did you try to dance closely, put your hand on her waist, and that kind of stuff?

Niceuname80 · 2021-02-05T02:38:34+00:00

https://youtu.be/Np9_VSEH330

ugglygirl · 2021-02-05T15:13:47+00:00

Eye contact

M-DA-HAWK · 2021-02-05T17:34:32+00:00

I havent done this but saw a video about it. The guy calls "Hand of God". Basically give a vibe youre enjoying yourself, go up to a girl, say hi and give a small compliment and put out your hand towards her. If she takes, youre in, dance with her make her twist or something.

OpenMindedSceptic · 2021-02-06T03:26:19+00:00

when guy tries cockblock or AMOG you, ignore him and interact with your girl eg kiss close or hold and carry her away --- will condition him out of it and make it clear that he’s vying for your attention but you and her are higher value (and sexual value rather than aggressive)

Title	For the love of god, how do you make a move on the dance floor
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Date	February 4, 2021 8:09 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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