How would a redpiller start a family to raise children?

Sepean · 2015-07-16T09:03:35+00:00

improve yourself and spin plates until you're 30, at least. Become a great man, develop abundance mentality, have fun.
As you get older, try keeping some plates along for longer so you figure this out what you really want from a girl and what type of girl you want.
Have a lot of girls to chose from when you one day decide it is time to settle down. Having a couple of kids and raising them takes 20+ years, you want an objectively great girl for this, not just whoever you happen to fall in love with.
In good time, before you even begin thinking about marriage, sit down with a divorce lawyer. Work out the best situation you could be in if you divorced. Listen to what he says about all the shitty situations even men with prenups end up in because they don't take care of their financial and legal situation in a potential divorce when they buy and invest along the way. In some jurisdictions, unmarried is best, in others married with prenups is best. At any rate, a prenup needs to be signed a long time before the wedding or it will get tossed in court instantly.
At least once a year, take out the paper will all the advice from the lawyer, read it, evaluate your situation. Fix anything that needs fixing. Remember it. Do not become complacent.
Remember all the TRP advice, and keep doing it throughout your marriage. Don't let her shit test your alphaness away. She'll try 10 times harder than she did while you were just a couple without children.

I've been married over 10 years, we have 2 kids. Wife is fit, horny, sexy, and pleasant company after I found TRP. It can work. It was utter horror before TRP, but trust me, TRP changes it; you will not suffer the dead bedroom fate that befalls BBs if you stay alpha. Just protect yourself against divorce rape if that time ever comes, and stay alpha, and you're good.

You probably can't protect yourself completely from divorce rape, but if that is the cost of having children, that's how it is. They're worth it. Each kid costs $200,000 or more anyway. If you look at it like you spread that cost plus divorce costs over the many decades you get to enjoy your children, it is a bargain.

squirrelcuisine · 2015-07-17T18:17:33+00:00

Find a redpill woman.

I thought about it at 16 and had a plan too. I was locked in at age 19 and married at 24. My plan was done by age 30 too. Wife, Kids, enough income she could take care of the kids. etc.

Find a woman that is nice first off. Find one that isnt an alpha. (There are plenty out there) and sit back and date a ton. BE super careful about who you have sex with. I dated women for 6 weeks tops then dumped them when they didnt make the cut. Anything that tips you off, break up with them. I probably dated 30 different women before stopping at age 19 and finding "The one"

She says she is a "feminst"? Automatic NEXT. There is a bunch of behaviors that you next em for immediately. (That is on you to figure that out) and you are going to next some hotties too.

Case and point.

I am 40+ this year will have 20 years married while everyone (except for one other alpha friend since 6th grade who did the same) around me is a smoking hole in the ground. Getting visitation rights with their kids and having to deal with the "Bitch ex-wife"

F that

Funny I watched all these guys go of and get married to horrible women. Hit is only part of it. Get someone who fits you. be VERY selective because they hide in plain sight. They have to because their views arent popular with the "feminists" and the SJWs.

I didnt know about red pill back then. I am not sure it existed back then.

I knew what I wanted out of life and I made it happen. Good for thinking ahead so you dont have to accept someone elses used up cast offs 10 years from now. You are lucky.

take a gander over at this

/r/RedPillWomen

No need to post there.. but observe them. Then go seek one out.

Nothing more killer than knowing your #2 has your back.

Dont listen to the other shit.. it is whining and I for one cant stand the shit.

Be more selective and dont remove yourself from the gene pool. Well done

RidleySmith · 2015-07-16T09:11:34+00:00

"art of manliness" does an interesting blog series about how the nuclear family is actually a historically very recent endeavour. Previously and throughout all of human history, a child would be raised by the extended family, who would all live together, not just the mum and dad. So maybe reconsider the necessity to conform to the nuclear family model.

Also, there are ways to keep a wife in line and minimise the risk of her fucking you over. LTR game for one.

[deleted] · 2015-07-16T19:26:52+00:00

IMO the only way I'd settle down into a marriage or LTR would be if:

Red pill woman.
Fucked enough teenagers that a midlife crisis is no longer an option

On topic though, prenups are not common here, but you guys seem to be used to them, definitely a good idea, I think a RP woman will understand that, custody and such... I'd say you should focus on being a successful person, that should help a lot when dealing with that.

[deleted] · 2015-07-16T08:21:19+00:00

A large majority of TRP would like to have a family, if it didn't mean putting their dicks and hearts under a guillotine.

As long as you live in a western country you will always lose when you split up. Pre-nup agreements are being thrown out of courts because it negatively affects the feelings of the women, who should always have the main custody due to their genetic superiority as far as parenting goes.

Today in Oriental cultures you might be more lucky but assuming you're not an idiot and you won't be starting a family before 35, the situation most likely will be westernized by then.

In the end I think we'll have to accept that you can be a father but in 99% of the times you won't be living with the child. We're evolving into an polygamy society like they have in Africa.

One of my current plates is from Mali. Her father has three wives and 12 children. Each wife lives alone with their children and the father either lives with one of wives or is on business travel (& most likely with one of his mistressess). He has children and a family, just not a traditional family life.

Or you could just swallow the BP, get married with a 29 year old whale and pretend to be happy until your soul shrivels up and slowly dies...

jdgalt · 2015-07-16T16:27:19+00:00

If you're avoiding marriage, don't even have an LTR in Colorado. It's a common-law marriage state, they can declare you married against your will. It happened to friends of mine.

Blake55 · 2015-07-16T06:59:48+00:00

"I don't feel like being divorce raped, especially with how much the feminist agenda is advancing."

That does happen, but you don't hear many stories about good marriages here. I think that a lot of women who would make good partners to raise a family with are often the more traditional type who would only like to do it within the context of marriage. I'm in a LTR now with someone who has suitable attributes to raise a fam with, and she would never get pregnant outside of marriage.

Working on yourself is about all you can do at this point. I know it gets flack, but learning some game, and using it to attract women can be a really good thing for confidence. Being a virgin in the 20s can be a major insecurity for a lot of guys, and it shows in other areas.

What would you like to do for a living? I was studying when I was your age with the intent of becoming a Dr, and am now only a couple of years away from graduating. All careers take some degree of planning, but especially the mainstream professional ones. I suggest focussing on your school stuff so you aren't restricted later if you do need a decent academic background.

I didn't work when I was your age because there wasn't any personal need to, but I think it's also great for getting a rounded experience and 'opening new doors'.

If I was to summarise advice for my 16 yo self it would be to not fuck anything up (health, drug addiction, being around losers, family) and to also better myself in a few solid ways (health, academics, CV/resume, employment).

[deleted] · 2015-07-16T12:21:24+00:00

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RPmatrix · 2015-07-16T13:45:58+00:00

get outta here! FFS you're SIXTEEN ans asking TRP about "marriage"

c'mon bro!

Title	How would a redpiller start a family to raise children?
Author	terranovatn
Upvotes	9
Comments	28
Date	July 16, 2015 6:40 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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