I feel like I'm weird to women.

sparkfrvit · 2024-03-23T00:07:37+00:00

Strange. At my college, there are many women philosophy majors and one of the top professors in the department is a woman. I cant help but wonder where you live, how old you are, and how much social interaction you get on a daily basis (esp with women). I understand your feelings and you dont have to give me details if you dont want but I do think a lot of this comes from insecurity and lack of exposure to “your kind of people”. Trust me, the philo girls at my school are all weird. I am weird, myself. Im a psych major but I went to PSA (philosophy club) meetings sometimes and went to parties run by the philosophy students. The girls are quirky and got along great with the weird philo guys. Those people are rare, men and women. It takes a specific kind of person with a lot of passion to major in something like philosophy knowing it doesnt provide you with a lot of career options. There are many philosophy enjoyers outside of the major who decided against that major due to different career interests. Sadly, the issue is knowing where to find them. If there is something like a philosophy club at your school there may be girls in it that youve never met, if its not restricted to the major.

Philosophy aside, your hobbies are normal. aside from your music taste, all of those things are typical interests nowadays. Again, I am wondering where you live, because I don’t see why you think video games and anime are strange interests. Even some of the “normies” (for lack of a better word) that I have met sometimes have seen an anime or two or play some kind of video game. As for being into metal, punk, goth, etc, i dont think thats really considered weird even though it may be considered alternative/underground. Those genres arent even really “underground” anymore due to the internet— people not involved in any kind of punk or goth scene can find and love the music just through the internet, so its more widespread. I personally love goth and punk music, though I am just getting into it pretty recently.

I don’t think anything you have described about yourself really stands out as weird to me at all, which is why I think there must be some factor here thats not being given enough attention. Do you live in a really southern area in america, or in some other country where “alt” people are still considered freaks? Are you a freshman? Do you have minimal social experience? Do you have social anxiety? Are your insecurities preventing you from seeing the ways in which other people might be similar to you?

xvszero · 2024-03-23T15:14:48+00:00

Some girls say that I'm cute, but never like... hot (one exception was this British girl I met online... and my ex). If anything, I'm really just the weird guy (not predatory weird) that she knows. No girl has ever liked my weirdness, at least not romantically.

I challenge you to challenge this way of thinking. I used to be like this and then years later people would say to me "but what about X, she had a thing for you" and I'd go "SHE DID?" and they would go "JESUS, YOU DIDN'T KNOW?"

The thing is, you probably won't know when women are into you, especially if you're a negative thinker like I was. But some of them will be. More than you think.

those are few and far between where I live

If you live in the middle of nowhere I'd suggest a plan for moving to a bigger city eventually.

Also your partner doesn't necessarily need to be into everything you are. I'm into anime, video games, punk and metal as well, and my wife... isn't really into any of that, outside a rare game or song here or there.

Chili440 · 2024-03-23T22:20:08+00:00

Just one thing - you say women are into tall, muscular, athletic men. Do you see not so tall, not so muscular, not so athletic guys around you dating at all? You THINK that's what women want. Ordinary guys are fine. I can onlg say keep doing your things, your groups, your hobbies, talking to women. You're Kenough.

Princessoflights · 2024-03-23T20:27:33+00:00

There's a huge crossover between mental disorders/the red pill so it's likely.

Time_Astronaut_42 · 2024-03-23T19:38:20+00:00

Philosophy is very niche. I found this out the hard way too. With the internet and social media, very rarely now are people actively internet in Philosophy, self-awareness, introspection, etc. You need to go seek out those groups and make friends with them. It's difficult to have philosophical discussions with most people. It requires deep thought.

Title	I feel like I'm weird to women.
Author	KaliFlesh
Upvotes	7
Comments	14
Date	March 22, 2024 11:29 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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