Here's the thing. Many of us here can get women. There was a time when it was our mission, not anymore. It's not because women aren't fun. It's because women aren't fun in the long run. What's the whole point of wasting time on a nice woman thinking that she'll be with you forever on any circumstances? We clearly know that it doesn't matter if you're an alpha or a beta, women will not love you like the way you want to be loved. The world's richest man, the best player in the world and the world's best actor is losing women even when they are alphas.

So let's just take a step back and ask ourselves. What makes us men happy? What are we missing in 2024? So many men are unhappy, sad, depressed and wear a fake smile outside. This is the truth.

Getting a job is hard, getting a girlfriend is hard, making a girlfriend stay is impossible. Finding unicorn is impossible, the new found unicorn wasn't a unicorn after all but a witch. Making money is hard. The lambos, you can try to earn them but you may just die trying. We work so hard thinking that one day, we can buy XYZ, experience XYZ but we can't. In short, life is hard and pointless.

Men younger than me are in a worse situation than me. They seems to have accepted their ill fate. The covid shots and covid fucked up even more people than we think. That was pouring kerosene to fire.

So many studies prove that "Friends" are the best way to be happy and healthy. Can we find friends? Finding friends is difficult. Finding true friends is even harder.

Even finding women to have sex is difficult. It shouldn't be this difficult. There are studies where it says our great grandfathers have 4x more sex than us without even trying so hard. They had pretty stable relationship. They never worked this much. Of course, may be more physical labor. So what? Still makes you happier than some coding shit and is healthier. They could buy land, buy homes with their meager money.

People in developing countries are moving to rich countries only to find out that the people in rich countries want to move somewhere poor to lead a happy life.

This was just a verbal diarrhea but what do you think is the best way for men as a collective group to be happy in the long run?

The second you've dated more than 5 girls, you'll understand all of them are the same thing in different flavors. In most cases, the posts in manosphere is "What to do" and "What not to do" but isn't that us changing our personalities/character to be with a woman or get a woman? The cunt isn't gold and it doesn't last so what's the worth of it?

Imagine the years you've wasted for a woman. Was it worth it?

Back to the question, what are we men doing wrong now? Is it that we don't have male friendships anymore or Is it that we are trying so hard to get women? What is it? Let's discuss, use our collective male brain and find out where we went wrong and what can we do to fix it.

Why are we men getting sadder and sadder every passing year? What are we missing here?

Edit : My donkey grammar

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