Tips on what to say to her in bed/talk her through it?

NoRefrigerator4969 · 2024-03-31T12:34:36+00:00

First off, find something authentic to you. You want to be as comfortable as possible and in the moment.

Second, make sure if you’re going to talk dirty to really enjoy yourself and get into it. It’s about being uninhibited and anything is better than being self conscious.

With that being said, my go to move has always been to just morph into a werewolf. No words. Just fucking pure animal sounds 😂

Responsible-You-7412 · 2024-03-31T14:47:48+00:00

Explain to her what you're feeling with a few rhetorical questions thrown in.

"You like that baby?"

"You're so wet"

"You feel so good"

"I love it when you spread your legs for me"

"You like what you see?

Etc, etc.

MrWiggles6969 · 2024-03-31T19:49:23+00:00

Ask her for her SSN#, passwords and credit score. Shows her you really care about her.

ASK HER! Women like different things. Theres not one phrase fits all.

VrilHunter · 2024-03-31T15:19:07+00:00

"this pussy belongs to me now"

Capable-Papaya-3031 · 2024-03-31T13:20:25+00:00

Grab her hair and ask if she likes this if she likes cock

FrasierSein · 2024-03-31T12:53:34+00:00

Check out the book Sex God

perpetualomerta · 2024-03-31T17:41:49+00:00

first, give her multiples. consistently.

learn her body. from top to bottom. find all of her spots.

once you are doing that, the words will intuitively start to flow.

2024-03-31T13:02:33+00:00

Stop asking reddit, ask HER

norwegiandoggo · 2024-03-31T12:16:10+00:00

Have you watched porn with dirty talk? I got a lot more comfortable with it after seeing examples. Reading some smut also helped

appmanga · 2024-03-31T14:33:11+00:00

"Just like the ones your mother laid out for you...".

Reasonable-Brief769 · 2024-03-31T18:04:56+00:00

“You like that, you fucking retard?”

3d4f5g · 2024-03-31T18:20:55+00:00

"the penitent shall pass. kneel before your sex god."

BarryBold8 · 2024-03-31T20:40:19+00:00

here thank me later I just came across this and it answers what you need.

noiceonebro · 2024-04-01T08:06:35+00:00

Moan, say you like her body, pull her hair and ask her “you like that you bitch?”, “you’re fucking tight” etc. I myself am very sadistic in nature so I like to degrade them via dirty talk. If you’re new to this whole thing, I suggest starting out small from saying how you like specific parts of her body, and then escalate as you get more and more comfortable and knowledgable about that part of you.

Personally, I think it’s a good idea to try things out. Like most preferences, it differs from woman to woman. For example, calling someone a slut, whore or bitch can sound very different for different woman. For example, she might like to be called a bitch but not slut, and have mixed emotions about being called a whore. This is different for different people.

Some woman may be more open to the idea of being roughed up when dirty talk puts them in the mood. Try to get in touch with your darker side she starts wanting this to happen.

Yes, I know I’m not talking about dirty talk per se, but to do dirty talk more effectively, being in touch with your dirty side helps.

Punkie_Writter · 2024-03-31T19:21:11+00:00

Every tip is cliché, Op. It would not be cliché to approach her in a unique way, based on her personal tastes.

The simple fact that you are asking for general notions of others, when you should know the woman in your bed the minimum necessary to know what she wants to hear, already shows that she is a complete stranger to you.

A gentle whisper of devotion can awaken her soul far more sweetly than any crude phrase. Make each moment a giving of self, not a taking; an exploration, not a conquest.

Explore.

Test limits.

She is not a federal revenue inspector. You will not be fined for anything you do.

usherzx · 2024-03-31T12:35:52+00:00

I'm so sick of these questions

432olim · 2024-03-31T16:39:32+00:00

Woman vocalize during sex a lot more than men. Just talk like normal when you’re not having sex and don’t worry too much about talking during sex.

Title	Tips on what to say to her in bed/talk her through it?
Author	InformalWarlock
Upvotes	73
Comments	41
Date	March 31, 2024 11:22 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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