Summary: I've had a nice LTR for 7 months now. I like being with her because she has a fairly low partner count, works hard, and has good values. I like the way she reflects on me. The problem is that I'm already tired of fucking her.

We went on a nice little vacation this past weekend, and over the course of 3 days, we had sex several times but I couldn't come once. I really like anal, and she says she wants to get good at it, but it's just not happening. She just has a small and sensitive ass.

What do I do? How do I frame the discussion? I can either tell her we need to be non-monogamous, or to try harder, or that we need to find a girlfriend for both of us. I like this girl (she's no unicorn though lol) and I like having her around as the 'public face' of my woman.

I sort of feel like a female who settled for a beta. I like a lot of things about her but she isn't the best lay I've ever had.

Assuming I want to keep her around and maybe even have kids with her one day, (without marriage - I have lots of assets) - what would your advice be?

Thanks in advance to my TRP brothers - like many of you, TRP has changed my life for the better.

EDIT: Thanks guys. Every response was helpful, and you're hitting on some of the exact issues I'm dealing with. The no-fap comment is helpful, although I've managed to go down to just twice per week. I freaking LOVE TRP. Nowhere else could I get honest and realistic advice like this. Thanks again, I have a lot to think about!