Alright.. This epiphany changed everything. It’s obvious to some, but not to me. And honestly, I wish I would have known this about 10 years ago.

SO…. I’m going to start with a little bit of story about my life, which will tie in to my epiphany.

I grew up in the middle of nowhere Arkansas. If you don’t know Arkansas, unless you’re in a college town, there’s probably about 1 hot girl for every 100 square miles. It’s fucking TERRIBLE out here. I have never seen another place in the world (And I’ve been to a lot of places) with less hot girls, than Arkansas.

But I grew up here… So it’s all I knew…. To summarize my boring upbringing: I had no game, no sense of style, no one to teach me (no father), and no girls to game anyways. It’s the worst situation you can imagine. Until I went to college. Finally, hot girls, in an abundance. It was a thick market. Thick could mean multiple things, but for right now, it means an abundance. Plenty of fish in the sea. So much so, that you can approach, get rejected, approach again, get rejected, and just keep doing that. You get enough tries to actually get better at talking to girls.

Even with no game. I was able to have a dating life.

The key: always approach. I overcame my fear of rejection. I just do it. And trust me, boy.. I got brutally rejected plenty of times. Inevitably, I got better though. I started getting laid for the first time. The girls I hung out with taught me how to dress and do my hair (HAHA)

I started learning more online and practicing, how to talk to girls. It was life changing. And then I left college (dropped out to start a business).

And again I lived… In the middle of nowhere… Arkansas…. A thin market. 1 girl per 100 square miles. You see a hot girl. You lose your shit and get nervous, because you haven’t seen a hot girl in 4 months. You muster up courage to say hi. You inevitably get rejected. And if you don’t you put her so high on the pedestal it’s probably not the right dynamic. And after you just give up, because there are only fat chicks left. And in Arkansas, the fat chicks are more stuck up than the hot ones. Lol My game dropped back down.

I was still better than before, with experience, but one thing I’ve learned is that social skills and charisma is like a muscle. Yes it will always be there, but if you’re not flexing it, it deteriorates.

Fast forward a couple of years. I travel for the first time. Hawaii, Orlando, Florida. THICK markets.

Hawaii, paradise, girls there for an adventure. Completely open and receptive to short term fun. Orlando, Florida. Probably the most hot girls I’d ever seen. I lived and worked downtown. They were literally everywhere.

I had the setup. That was probably the most epic year of my life, and I didn’t even really try. It was just inevitable. This was fucking eye opening. The set up is everything.

I moved to Dallas. Believe it or not, THIN MARKET. Girls there are super snobby. And yes there are SOME hot ones (not many) Unless you’re a club rat, they’re not all in one place. No foot traffic like Orlando. And honestly even the ones at the club were far and few between.

Game deteriorated. Dating life kinda sucked there.

Okay last place, Budapest Hungary. I moved there for 2 months.

I just recently researched and realized… Budapest might be one of the BEST places for game in the world. Not only are the women beautiful, but super open, love foreigners, and it’s so abundant. I lived downtown again. It was probably the best 2 months of my dating life. I think I had around 20-30 dates in that time. Almost every few days.

I gave it some effort, but it was hard not to. They were everywhere.

I think you guys understand the point. GAME and social skills is more highly dependent on your location and set up, than it is you. If you’ve simply gotten over the fear of approaching, you will inevitably get better. If you’re approaching, it’s impossible not to. And what I learned, ANYTIME I’ve had a leap in progress, has been more so because of where I lived, than what I did. Now it takes effort to approach, but it’s fucking impossible when there is no abundance. And it’s a waste of time. I could knockout 30 approaches in an hour if I wanted to, in Budapest. And that with hot girls.

In Arkansas, Id be lucky to find 30 hot girls in 30 days, and that’s if I put my entire day into searching for one hot girl. It’s literally the worst. How can you get good like that?

It’s like trying to get stronger in the gym, without the fucking gym. You can only do so much.

I think this was such an epiphany for me, because I’ve tried to get good at game for so long, in the wrong places. I’d be in places where there’s no foot traffic, trying to do approaches, wondering why my dating life sucked. But literally just moving reshaped all of it.

ALSO, some places I feel like girls are more receptive. Like San Diego California, I felt like girls there were cool as hell, open, and it had a lot of tourists, whom are always open to fun.

Anyways, thanks for reading, hope you enjoyed this. Let me know if you have ANY questions.