is it mean to tell my husband i’m not satisfied in bed recently

CranberrySoftServe · 2024-04-17T21:24:27+00:00

Omg talk about a buried lede. The base issue is not the sex life. It’s the hiding going to strip clubs. How did you find that out, did he tell you?

Salt_Radish_63 · 2024-04-17T22:09:58+00:00

Uh.. does frequenting the strip club not bother you?

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Title: is it mean to tell my husband i’m not satisfied in bed recently

Author bambibabycake

Full text: lately we’ve been having significantly less sex & i was ok with it bc he’s been busy with work lately but come to find out he’s actually been visiting strip club behind my back.

i’ve never had to have such awkward conversation with any other relationship & i’ve never felt rejected. should i mention it or wait it out & see if it gets better?

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TheBunk_TB · 2024-04-17T23:48:53+00:00

“I like when you do this “ “A little more gently”

Verbalize your concerns but own the fact that you are not happy about “x”, (You haven’t mentioned if you had a problem with his strip club visits, unless this was the first time)

You may need to update your details for everyone

VasiliyZaitzev · 2024-04-18T02:27:03+00:00

but come to find out he’s actually been visiting strip club behind my back.

Oof. It seems you might have smth in common then. I'd bring it up, but ask him if he's been satisfied in bed recently, and then you will get a turn to have a say also. Obv be delicate about how you phrase it.

LiteratureOk7716 · 2024-04-18T04:24:23+00:00

u/murkyperspective767's fund would have trips to the local strip club, at least once a quarter. None of we partners -- as we weren't married for most of the time -- were listened to when we objected to the practice. In the end, I, at least, didn't see it as a big deal, as he would always come home to yours truly. But, I trust him completely.

Title	is it mean to tell my husband i’m not satisfied in bed recently
Author	bambibabycake
Upvotes	10
Comments	13
Date	April 17, 2024 9:13 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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