I [M26] recently started to take massive action and go out 3-4 times a week. I never have any problem meeting and having a good time with the most beautiful girls at the venue. I'm focusing on having fun, being present, enjoying the moment and their feminine energy. Pretty much all the girls enjoy my company and even ask for my contacts.

However, the closing part is the hardest part. I really don't know where to start. All the girls I have been with so far have always made them first a fairly important first step.

I can't make things happen off my own bat. Is it really worth trying to ask them out? Does it still work? My success rate when I ask them out is always close to zero, they pretty much always ghost me or decline although during the interaction irl they seem quite taken. Asking them to come to my house? It's often a group situation and in any case I don't like to stay out late.

It's not even a matter of being put in the friendzone. I feel that I am perceived as a guy who gets laid a lot while this could not be more untrue. Essentially I get the worst of both worlds.

My strategy at the moment is to play the law of large numbers, to meet so many girls that sooner or later there will be someone who likes me so much that she makes the first move.

Was anyone in my situation? If so, how did you come out of it?