Before I begin this post, let's be clear-NEVER BE AFRAID TO LOSE HER.

She leaves you because you've become complacent in one way or another and she's looking for something new, something novel. You need to spin plates in one way or another. You need to create new realities for your girl or create new realities within your own frame.

A lot of people in this sub play videogames; some games such as Fallout or Skyrim are played for year's end- just this one game! While other games, such as Madden or NBA 2K, need to release a new game every year. What's the difference between the two? The differences is that Fallout and Skyrim constantly have mods, updates, or downloadable content added to the games that create repayable experiences that make no play-through the same, whereas Madden and 2k simply change the roster and graphics each year. You want your relationship with your girl to feel like Fallout, not 2K.

Hypergamy is constantly began explored or conducted by women, regardless of their background.

People always say celebrities such as Drake or Leonardo Dicaprio can easily take their girl and it's not necessarily always because of their money or looks, but the experiences they can provide. Most women have no idea or have barely tasted the type of access and status these celebrities have; it's exciting, it's refreshing, and it's definitely different from the Taco Tuesday's you and her have been doing for the past year.

The virgin girl from the Muslim country is no different in terms of primitive instincts as is the stripper from Miami. All women have an end game and understand manipulation along with where their value holds; that's why you'll see HB 10 strippers securing NBA player husbands or baby fathers, yet you'll also see successful, college-educated women that are 6s or 7s desperate for a husband or even a boyfriend.

Both of these types of women understand their value and have consciously, or subconsciously developed manipulation tactics to achieve partners at, or above their value. A woman truly desires a man at, or above her level physically, financially, and socially. the HB 10 stripper understands that she can use her physically prowess to seduce and NBA player, while the lawyer that's a 7 understands that a man that makes the same as her financially, AND is at least the same level of attractiveness as her, is going to have younger, more attractive options.

How Can I Truly "Spin Plates"?

Spinning plates needs to be done regardless of your level, because as I continue to emphasize, hypergamy is ALWAYS being practiced. That's why these celebrities experience divorces and extramarital affairs just as common-folk do because at the end of the day, without the right program, excitement in relationship almost always wanes.

Here are some plates to spin in your relationship

Physical

If you're skinny or fat, you need to develop a buff, muscular physique. You need a full beard. If you can't grow one, hop on minoxidil. I don't care what PC bullshit is out there about women liking skinny guys, dad bods, or pretty boys, but you need to develop a dominant masculine frame that screams sex. Women fantasize about rough sex with a muscular bearded guy. It will make your clothes look better, and if you don't have one while you're in the relationship, it'll make her start questioning what's going on and get her in line.

Emotional

You need to turn cold every once in a while. Take an extra two hours to respond to texts for a week or two. If your'e living together, spend an extra two hours after work than you normally would a few times this month. Do one of these things every other month to keep the mystery, suspicion, and competition up.

Social

Pick up a new hobby. Learn a new skill (cooking, woodworking, etc.). Make one new friend at least a month. Buy a new wardrobe. All of these things are going to increase your network, knowledge, and overall status. They will open new doors and create questions within her head in regards to where this sudden change is coming from. And finally in regards to her, create spontaneous memories. If funds are willing, tell her "Pack your bags we are headed to Hawaii tomorrow!". If that's not possible, make it a restaurant, a play, just something fucking new.

Above anything else, note that all these pillars listed are not only going to make your relationship, better, but your life better. They will align you with your purpose and create a better reality for you both and out of a relationship.

AND ONCE AGAIN

NEVER BE AFRAID TO LOSE HER