Building report with a girl who gave me her number

ZopiloteMojado · 2024-04-29T03:45:38+00:00

Rapport

ROBYoutube · 2024-04-29T02:58:44+00:00

You are doing fine.

Women you meet in social settings like this will give you their contact details for a number of reasons, only a few of which means 'I'm interested in dating this guy'. So unless you were very forward with your intentions and said 'I'd like to go for a coffee with you outside of running club', which I'm pretty sure you didn't judging from the context, she could have given you those details for entirely platonic, club related reasons.

The simplest way I could advise to get the results your after without creeping her out is pretend she's a dude at your running club. Don't text her anymore until you've had that run together. Text only about club stuff until you know her well enough from constant contact at the club for you to actually get to know her.

DaygameCode · 2024-04-29T10:55:07+00:00

Get to know them for 10 minutes in person before you get their number. The phone is not for building rapport.

Also, don’t wish girls well. Don’t be the mister nice guy, who is concerned or worried about her. Be the one that teases her and pokes fun at her.

So instead of saying “I cross my fingers you don’t get lost again” (which is lame and doesn’t make her feel anything) just tease her like: “I just found the perfect running group for you: “Directionally challenged runners”. You welcome!”

Yes, it’s a bit more mean, but that’s the point of teasing. Tonality, plays a lot in how she takes it. If she isn’t embittered person, she will take the joke. If she is an embittered person, better to run away.

But playing it safe and dull like “_I really hope you don’t get lost again” is 😴💤_”.

When you have to choose between potentially making her feel strong emotions and not making her feel anything at all, always choose the strong emotions.

urMirin · 2024-04-29T09:23:38+00:00

Theboynextdoor09 · 2024-04-29T13:57:50+00:00

Your doing fine. Next time talk more when meeting. It gives you more things to go from and conversations are easier. i see you tried to tease her a bit which is fine but nothing to continue the conversation. Sometimes people need an extra push until you get into flow. We know she def into running which if she is at next running group then it would be ideal to talk in person. You could also invite her to the next group and take ownership

DaygameCode · 2024-04-29T09:01:49+00:00

Get to know them for 10 minutes in person before you get their number. The phone is not for building rapport.

Also, don’t wish girls well. Don’t be the mister nice guy, who is concerned or worried about her. Be the one that teases her and pokes fun at her.

So instead of saying “I cross my fingers you don’t get lost again” (which is lame and doesn’t make her feel anything) just tease her like: “_I just found the perfect running group for you: “Directionally challenged runners”. So excited for u!_”

Yes, it’s a bit more mean, but that’s the point of teasing. Tonality, plays a lot in how she takes it. If she isn’t embittered person, she will take the joke. If she is an embittered person, better to run away.

But playing it safe and dull like “I really hope you don’t get lost again” is 😴💤.

When you have to choose between potentially making her feel strong emotions and not making her feel anything at all, always choose the strong emotions.

Realdavidlima · 2024-04-29T11:19:19+00:00

Dont ever double text unless she does, comes off as needy/ thirsty. Also try not to use too many hahas’ lol’s lmaos etc etc …. Girls are not your bros, they dont laugh every 5 seconds, keep it cool

Title	Building report with a girl who gave me her number
Author	bigslick55
Upvotes	20
Comments	16
Date	April 29, 2024 2:51 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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