I finally settled my parenting allocation judgment (custody agreement) tonight.

It's been four years. $300,000+ on my side. Probably close to $600,000 total.

I'm supposed to go to trial on Monday.

There has been next to zero discussions of finances, so I have four days to cobble that part of this whole thing together.

I feel...........I don't even know.

After four years of this, I wish I felt good, but I've been so abused by my ex, her attorney, the court system, the GAL, etc. I'm just spent?

I'm just posting this to get some solidarity.

I got fucked in the parenting judgment, but it was far from how far I thought I would be fucked initially....so I guess that's a win?

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I guess I just need some encouragement.