Very long story short, I had a completely lopsided divorce. I lost just about every issue. The court really did side with whatever my ex wife said (no evidence me was really looked at).

I don’t want to get into specifics, but that’s the truth.

I filed in OCTOBER to get a modification of child support. I’m supposed to go to court tomorrow for it (it took nine months to get a hearing).

She convinced the initial judge that I should be paying he support (even though the guidelines say she should be paying me). The judge just gave it to her.

It’s $600 a month. I thought this process to modify with a new judge would be quick and we’d look at the facts and modify.

Of course not.

She convinced the judge to postpone my hearing, filed four new subpoenas and filed a motion to reduce my parenting time (I get 40% now, she wants to make it two days a month supervised).

This is going to be FAR more in attorney costs than what I pay in child support.

Of course, she doesn’t care.

I just need some support. Please tell me the grass is greener and eventually our bitter exes give up and move on. Because as terrible as it was to be married to her, divorcing her is ten times worse.

I really can’t live like this. Some perspective would be amazing.