Ive had 3 exes. They want to be treated w respect yet they will give silent treatment or give attitude if something isn’t done EXACTLY how they want it.

They always wanted me to apologize when I did something wrong, which I have no problem w cause I am not overly stubborn. However when I bring up a problem to them they would invalidate, argue, or cry.

They would argue and fight if I had girl friends who have been friends w me for years but then they would actively make new guy friends while in a relationship and say “Oh hes just a friend”.

One of the ones I dated said how she hates cheaters cause her ex cheated on her. Found out she cheated from her “guy friend” a month before we had the breakup. Apparently she “saw the breakup coming” which is why she did it.

When I left her cause I don’t deal w cheaters she tried to flip the blame? Saying that “I saw you text that girl you would’ve done the same” like she was looking for a reason to validate her cheating? (Btw that text was me asking the girl if she could setup the Volleyball game at the indoor gym)

Another thing I see are women saying “fuck men all they want is sex and they objectify” but then they actively talk about “WOW LOOK AT THAT MANS ASS I WANT TO SQUEEZE IT”. Then some post thirst trap posts sayin “Throw me around and own me” etc.

I just don’t get it. Do they realize they are being hypocrites but feign ignorance to feel better? I get not all girls do this but it seems to be a thing among girls who were raised in a broken household.

Honestly its making me scared to date again. I lowkey think Im becoming misogynistic the more I meet these kind of people. As I get older I even find my own mother being hypocritical.

I mostly want to know if these kinda people know the stunts they pulling. Or they genuinely think they are in the right.